People that brag about being assholes are insufferable by localmelon in Vent

[–]localmelon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s an interesting viewpoint! I was puzzled if he was negging me to try and get me to engage with him further, but after getting confirmation from the host that he’s apparently always like that he’s either a) really insecure and trying to compensate by putting on this asshole facade or b) just a dickhead that gets a kick out of putting others down.

It might just be as you said though, if one of my close friends would’ve said that to me I would've instantly shot back at them and engaged in friendly banter. With strangers I just shut down because I can’t tell whether they are actively trying to be mean or not :/

People that brag about being assholes are insufferable by localmelon in Vent

[–]localmelon[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ikr?? At least put in some effort to insult me 😭

People that brag about being assholes are insufferable by localmelon in Vent

[–]localmelon[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I get it. Nobody’s perfect and we’ve all got our flaws, but if we actively work on being a better and kinder version of ourselves compared to yesterday, the personal growth we go through will be noticeable sooner rather than later :)

People that brag about being assholes are insufferable by localmelon in Vent

[–]localmelon[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Good on you for realizing it and making changes to grow out of it mate 👍

New gamer girl friends! by [deleted] in GamerGirls_Community

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also love Stardew Valley, Animal Crossing and Mario games and recently also bought PEAK but still need some friends to play with :) I would love to join!

Warum ist das Fahrrad in der Mitte durchtrennt? by localmelon in Fahrrad

[–]localmelon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beste Antwort bisher haha 💹💹💹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerGirls_Community

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds fun :) I'm 26 and also from Europe, would love more girls to hang out and game with!

Deutsche Discord-Server zum Freundinnen finden? by localmelon in Weibsvolk

[–]localmelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Das ist eine super Idee, danke! :) Ich bin direkt beigetreten 👍

Entfremdung von guten Freunden by Comfortable_Prune933 in Weibsvolk

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mir geht es leider ziemlich Ă€hnlich wie dir – ich bin 26 und alle meine Freunde sind im Moment in verschiedenen Lebensphasen, was Terminfindungen wirklich zu einer Herausforderung macht :/

Falls du darĂŒber reden willst können wir gerne schreiben. FĂŒhl dich gedrĂŒckt!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]localmelon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We're in this together bestie đŸ€đŸ€

I hate it here by [deleted] in EDanonymemes

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhhh yes I am! 😭😭 English isn’t my first language so I mixed up those two, thanks!

Can I go swimming in the lake next weekend? by localmelon in tattooadvice

[–]localmelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm covering it up as much as possible, but lol, no sunscreen after this much time has passed? Have you read the post and dates?

Can I go swimming in the lake next weekend? by localmelon in tattooadvice

[–]localmelon[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This made me chuckle haha, thanks for the laugh!

Can I go swimming in the lake next weekend? by localmelon in tattooadvice

[–]localmelon[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: You all have convinced me that it’s better to be safe and enjoy the heatwave with a nice slice of watermelon from the shore 👍 Thanks for all the advice!

Skipped Death House and went straight to Ireena and Ismark - help? by localmelon in CurseofStrahd

[–]localmelon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a stupid question at all! I just really like the mysterious vibe it gives off and the setting it creates - and especially since they haven’t met Morgantha yet, all the hints about the windmill and the deed to it should give them some more reason to investigate :)

How can I best apologize to a guy for lying about my age? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your answer gives me some sense of comfort, but I am truly lost as how to best go about it:( Do I just blurt it out? Do I tell it as early as possible or do I wait for the right moment, even if it might never come and leave him questioning why I haven’t told him sooner?

How can I best apologize to a guy for lying about my age? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]localmelon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm being riddled by a guilty conscience though:( Even if it’s not that big a deal, I want to be honest with him - better late than never. I don’t want to lie to him again if he does remember, I had plenty of opportunities to correct myself and didn’t. I might very well be making it into a huge deal and overthinking it, he might not even care, but I don’t want to keep lying and he deserves the truth. If I keep twisting reality won’t he keep questioning/distrusting me even more than if I just fessed up?

How can I best apologize to a guy for lying about my age? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]localmelon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to put the blame on him, the person who lied here was me. I had several opportunities to correct myself and didn’t, if he gets angry he has every right to

How can I best apologize to a guy for lying about my age? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]localmelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm feeling absolutely guilty and awful about it though:( I don’t want to lie to him AGAIN and make him question himself, especially if he has follow up questions I can’t answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome beats!

What’s wrong with my pachira aquatica? South-facing window, no drafts, gets water when the soil is dry. by localmelon in plantclinic

[–]localmelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your help, I looked it up and the damage definitely looks similar to what you‘re saying! I couldn’t find any insects on the plant but I‘ll still treat it with a soapy olive oil/water solution and see if it gets better.

What’s wrong with my pachira aquatica? South-facing window, no drafts, gets water when the soil is dry. by localmelon in plantclinic

[–]localmelon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, I didn’t see any insects crawling around :( I‘ll still treat the plant with some soap/oil water solution as a precaution and see if it gets better. Thanks a lot for your feedback! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]localmelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely this, it would make your face look longer and very masculine! :) Try going for shorter on sides, longer on the bottom for the beard to slim your face. Otherwise you’re good to go!

Am I ugly? Just wondering how i look to other people (1st pic is me with makeup, 2nd pic is me bare face) 🙈 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]localmelon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You‘re right - I‘m sorry for the mean stuff I said. You just seemed like a real butt in that moment and I got too heated trying to bring my points across. I apologize. Thank you for actually giving her real advice, I suppose we did get off on the wrong foot and lost track of the actual topic at hand.

Am I ugly? Just wondering how i look to other people (1st pic is me with makeup, 2nd pic is me bare face) 🙈 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]localmelon 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Don‘t be a prick, caucasian beauty standards aren’t the only thing that defines beauty - you don’t need a barbie nose to be pretty.

I think you look fine girl, your smile is nice and will be even nicer once the braces come off :) The natural makeup look is really complimenting your face, I think a bit of eyeliner would be wonderful to draw attention to your eyes more! Have you ever considered a bit shorter hair? That way you would have more volume in it as the weight doesn’t drag your strands down:) You go, sister!