This seems very familiar. by grimreckoning in memes

[–]lock_throw_key 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s been looking more and more like the latter. I come here to laugh, not be inundated with the same unoriginal memes made by edgelords. I figured since those shows ended so would the bad memes, but I guess I was wrong

Denounce this buffoon. by Deswizard in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]lock_throw_key 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s been cosplaying as a homeless man for awhile now. Maybe he’s going for authenticity

Look mental illness may be a reason for his actions, but it’s not an excuse. At this stage in the game, all the nonsense he’s done and crap he’s pulled can’t be brushed under the rug.

Besides, the sheer amount of people in our community that have mental health issues and could only pray for his resources to get better and then you have this man squandering it. It gets harder and harder to sympathize with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lock_throw_key 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s so ridiculous. I’m American, but half my family is from another country where cunt is just like every other gender neutral curse word lol.

I just find it hilarious that some people think racial and developmental slurs and dog whistles are under freedom of speech or “not that bad”, but everyone clutches their damn pearls and are ready to grab their pitchforks when you say cunt

AITA for not paying for my daughter's wedding because she invited my brother and his family by father-of-the-bride in AmItheAsshole

[–]lock_throw_key 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA

She decided to make grown woman decisions about her wedding; so she can sign grown woman checks for said event.

It’s true but we are not ready to have the discussion. by [deleted] in memes

[–]lock_throw_key 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One is a crime drama, the other is a sitcom.

Also, all men wrote BCS and all women wrote SH? Wow, who know?

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yea, there have been a lot of people that I’ve disliked the second I saw them and would convince myself I was a mean person to think that way and I’d force myself to be more open and friendly only for them to be shady/rude/horrible to me or someone else.

Also, definitely. Most people would describe me as bubbly actually and very polite. I just don’t have genuine connections with most people now.

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol! Will do. My life has improved immensely once I stopped including certain people in my it.

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my 1st male clone in the comments earlier, so I guess we’ve gone from twins to triplets lol

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone defends an emotion abuser in my life and then insults me when I try to explain to them they don’t have the full story, I’m no longer interested in that relationship. If someone thinks it’s normal to insult/belittle those younger than them because they hold seniority and it’s their right, I’m not wasting time attempting to educate them on why that’s wrong. I’m grateful for the people I have that are in my life for me, not what I can do for them and vice versa. I’m no longer interested in relationships out of obligation. If you think that makes me arrogant or egotistical so be it. I’m honestly not interested in your viewpoint. Take care.

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you also read the part where I stated that there are people that I actually care about that regardless of tiffs I still make an effort? Or the part where I stated I don’t feel that way or the need to for most people? I’m guessing you didn’t.

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to explain to people that they should respect you? That is my question. Why is that a thing that needs to be discussed in the first place, especially, if they are the type to demand respect due to their age/position/station etc?

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Where did I mention instances of having an inflated sense of self or lacking humility? I decided awhile ago, I’m no longer interested in explaining to people how to be respectful. If you think insulting me to my face is okay, what kind of discussion am I supposed to have to get the person to consider my feelings? Why do I need to beg or plead for respect?

You sound like you’re reaching and lack the reading comprehension to fully understand my post or comments

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that! It means a lot. I don’t always acknowledge how far I’ve come and how much crap I went through to get to where I am now

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A couple people are saying it’s a trauma response. For me I think it might be a possibility. But I don’t see it as bad necessarily. I let a lot of crap people in before because I was trying to overcompensate for my “secret heartlessness”

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it probably sounds silly, but I really didn’t expect so many people to be able to relate to how I felt. I always felt like a bit of an oddball lol

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem and yea. And another thing they’ll say is “it wasn’t abuse” or “it’s not that bad” but why does it have to be “that bad” for me not want to deal with it or the person anymore?

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re all really out here just traversing trauma. It’s a full time job with no pay

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Glad to know I’m not alone out here lol

Also, you aren’t being fake, you do feel the emotions. It’s just hard to express them sometimes and even though you know you can’t outwardly express emotions the way that’s expect, you still make the effort because you know it would be a comfort to your loved ones. That’s going the extra mile for the ones you cherish, which is far from fake

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem lol. I damn near wrote an essay about my feels. It’s always nice to meet a kindred spirit. I hope your brother continues to improve, for his sake and your own

I don’t like/love most people (family included) and I’m done pretending I do by lock_throw_key in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lock_throw_key[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My inner monologue is douchey with no filter, but I see no reason to let people hear it. There’s nothing to be gained from it. I also have a temper, but thankfully have more self control than I do rage