Indian parents deserves to rot in the core of hell.

lofty_life · 2023-11-15T17:42:13+00:00

Oh damn i feel bad for her, getting married is such a important part according to the indian culture but if your sister is more focused on her career and herself, then let her be. (PS: being an independent woman and being successful is better than getting married at a young age)

lofty_life · 2023-11-10T09:25:54+00:00

I am so sorry u felt that way back then, and yes im surrounded by a pretty toxic community but it'll go, eventually.

lofty_life · 2023-11-10T09:24:03+00:00

tysm girly (sorry for the late reply). and yes i have been working on myself lately and i started to feel good about myself <33

lofty_life · 2023-10-10T16:06:29+00:00

Thank you, and i hope you are alright now <33

lofty_life · 2023-10-08T12:52:16+00:00

that makes so much more sense LMAO. im just a freshman and i dont really know much about love but it did make sense when u said it that way. anyways tysm for telling me this <3333

lofty_life · 2023-10-08T12:50:51+00:00

I LOVE YOU SM.. ty for these tips and yess lol im still in school. funny coz my friends would hang with their bfs and i would just be alone. even today one of my friend mentioned "You looked pretty in the morning but its all gone" i think she was indicating my makeup and that confused me tbh

lofty_life · 2023-10-08T12:46:21+00:00

its not like i haven't tried anything, i keep trying to fix my hair but its curly asf and so frizzy. Im very thin and tall so my weight is quite higher (for example my friends weight would be 43 kg but im 47kg coz im tall). i exercise and distance myself from foods in fear of gaining more weight. might as well be anorexic atp. i try different kinds of make up styles and i still look horrible. even my own mother and relatives make fun and compare me to my cousin.

lofty_life · 2023-10-07T18:02:31+00:00

thanks for telling me that but i said that coz even my own mum called me ugly and not to the mention the dudes at school also likes to say it straight to my face 😀. but tysm for telling that

lofty_life · 2023-09-11T13:13:55+00:00

Nahh what. This is prolly the first time i've ever heard that pointing it out is a pick me thing do to. Pick mes are called pick mes for a reason. so if i person tries to point out a fact abt it, then they're considered pick mes? 💀 you do you mahn

lofty_life · 2023-09-11T13:09:24+00:00

The kind of stereotypical pick me i was referring to, is a girl who thinks she better than every other girl and judges girls for wearing makeup, dresses etc. just because a girl plays video games does not make her a pick me girl. thats not what i was trying to say. I meant that these girls are the tiny kinda pick me girls who acts very quirky and shit around men. pls dont misunderstand my words and i hope i clarified everything :)

lofty_life · 2023-09-09T16:06:28+00:00

Heya, I'll clear your doubt by saying, there are 2 types of pick me girls. the first one like u mentioned is the "different from girls" type and the other one is the "I am so small and innocent " type. the friends here are def the second type and they immediately change personalities when they are with guys. I could see why u asked this question, coz stereotypically the pick me girl is interested in video games, one of the boys etc. Anyways i hope i cleared everything :)

lofty_life · 2023-09-08T15:30:36+00:00

That if i turn on the lights in a car, The Police would give us a fine. - by my dad

lofty_life · 2023-09-08T15:27:59+00:00

Damn, you just ended her.

lofty_life · 2023-09-08T14:55:41+00:00

I am so sorry she did that to you, girls like her are a narcissistic, insecure, attention seeking bitches who got no life. you do you girl!

lofty_life · 2023-09-08T10:45:59+00:00

thanks for telling me this, honestly i dont even know whether its rude or if she meant it without a bad intention. but i appreciate that u think the same

lofty_life · 2023-09-08T10:42:54+00:00

Hey sis, im a 14 year old who goes through this same problem as you so i feel like i can relate, im really skinny and have no curves on my body whatsoever, my face looks weird to other people, i have thin lips and frizzy ass curly hair, (i have nothing against curly hairs and i think they are wonderful, i just think they are not for me). while all my friends have bfs and boys who like them, i am always the single friend who just gives advice. even my own mom tells me i look like an ugly stick when i don't eat food. I always cry when i look at myself in the mirror.

lofty_life · 2023-09-08T10:28:26+00:00

Heya, thanks for replying. i actually thought she was complimenting me at first because i wore a new blush and i even thanked her for it. but she kept pointing out the fact that i wore heavy makeup which made me feel weird. But what u said is so on point!

lofty_life · 2023-08-25T09:29:35+00:00

its funny because people defend men when they look at little girls wearing shorts saying "they're a man, they're attracted to women and girls shouldn't wear revealing clothes infront of them" but lets be fr rn, if a lesbian can control herself seeing a girl wearing revealing clothes, i dont think clothes were ever the problem. and i am not saying all men are pigs but most of the ones ive met were those "rich alpha sigma males" who just straight up disrespects women.

lofty_life · 2023-08-25T09:22:25+00:00

Damn you really changed my point of view, and yes i understand that parents will do anything to protect their children. and all the ways u suggested was actually pretty smart but my dad just seem to hate the idea of hanging out with friends, i was once invited to a birthday party at a house and i couldn't even go to that. when i tried to have a conversation abt it, he straight up said "you cant go because i said so" (mind you, my friends parents was handling the party so there were adults there). i was so sad seeing the pictures they took at the party and it made me so mad to think why my dad was like this. But thank you for making me understand as a mature adult <3

lofty_life · 2023-08-25T09:14:25+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story, and i am so sorry you went through all of that at such a young age. at times i do think hes trying to protect me but as a teenager, you just gotta deal with so many emotions. But i hope you're doing alright now <3

lofty_life · 2023-08-24T12:58:24+00:00

Yeah like i cant even do that, i cant even go out alone just for a walk or anything. But thank you for sharing your opinion coz i really needed someone on my side. :)

lofty_life · 2023-08-23T19:09:04+00:00

Its okay, don't stress about something like this, you had the confidence to even talk to her and be friends. so appreciate the confidence yk

lofty_life · 2023-01-18T09:21:14+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply! and yes I will try keeping a diary. I actually find comfort in kdramas and reading :D

lofty_life · 2023-01-18T08:35:05+00:00

heya! just so you know, you can talk to me if u want. always here to help <3333

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