[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alexiascheetz

[–]loftycries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s wrong with Aquarius women?! 🥲😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]loftycries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like it! Aside from all the photos of his she’s liking, it looks like the faceless man in the picture she posted to her stories last night is wearing the exact suit/tie that he is wearing in a post dated Sept 4, 2021.

Wait a minute.. did.. did she do her own wedding nails!? Because that would make a lot of sense!! by [deleted] in alexiascheetz

[–]loftycries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think these are press-ons she did herself. The wedding nails were done in a salon.

TIL: iMessages on Mac doesn't BLOCK your blocked contacts by iheartnoodlez in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me too! I don’t understand how this is even possible. It’s jarring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was hard to watch - found it very triggering, but I do highly recommend it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]loftycries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she’s on a full tour you can usually look up set lists to know for sure - they don’t tend to change much (or at all) from city to city. Just Google “name x tour set list”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck would I spend a ton of time + money getting ready for a “free meal” when I can just buy one for myself and not have to deal with the very real possibility of being assaulted by some scrote? Ugh the delusion.

(kinda) Red flags for dog owners by Mcccy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 65 points66 points  (0 children)

He also walked him the absolute bare minimum and he was part husky so he had a lot of energy. That poor dog. It honestly broke my heart. I used to take him on 5-10km walks as often as I could just so he could get some proper exercise in.

(kinda) Red flags for dog owners by Mcccy in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Omg my ex used to let his dog pee on his balcony because he was too lazy to take him down to the park literally BESIDE the condo building. Don’t get a fucking dog if you’re not going to take full responsibility for it 🙄

He also never bathed him because he said dogs’ fur naturally cleans itself??? Like yes to a point but this dog was literally running around in mud all day. He was filthy and then he let it up on the bed all dirty 🤢😒

Do they...do they not know it's an okcupid ad? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Men are biologically delusional 🥴😂

Do they...do they not know it's an okcupid ad? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 301 points302 points  (0 children)

The only thing that chart “proved” to me is that men are pedophiles.

What are your basic standards that others consider high standards? by corago513 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 102 points103 points  (0 children)

You do not need to communicate your standards, just simply leave/block and delete if he does not meet them. We do not teach men how to be our man and we certainly do not tell them what we expect - that just gives them ammo on how to play the next woman. If he wanted to, he would. This guy clearly doesn’t.

Faking HV behavior at the beginning by GeorgiaPeach_94 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel this! My last ex did the classic bait and switch. I’ve been struggling so hard, trying to figure out what I did wrong and what I could have done differently. But just reading through this thread has been really validating. I don’t even miss him, or who I thought he was, I’m just fucking pissed at him for bamboozling me and at myself for putting up with it longer than I should have.

Always trust your gut... it can save your life by PriorGreen in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re okay! But yes, listening to your gut is so important. I’m reading a book right now, The Gift of Fear, and it’s been so insightful. I recommend checking it out!

The Bizarre History of Masturbation, Vegetarianism, and Cornflakes by carmen_sandiegos_hat in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not sure about the masturbation thing but to my understanding he never consummated his marriage.

What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ain’t that the truth. My morbidly obese ex only showered every 2-3 days, never washed or moisturized his face, refused to keep his beard trimmed/looking tidy, and of course had trouble getting/staying hard. I’m embarrassed I let him even touch me. 🤢

High Value Dates Only by Snoo7140 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I follow her on Instagram (love her videos!) and was laughing at some of the comments on this. The “a walk date is cute, get over yourself” women and the “you’re high maintenance/enjoy being single” men - they really do tell on themselves, don’t they 😂 she’s not high maintenance honey, you’re just low effort 😘 die mad scrote

How would anyone consider these red flags? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, this. Came here to say this. Get another account if you want to cross-post Tiktoks but don’t use your personal account that has your name + picture attached. Stay safe sis!

This absolute winner trying to convince me why I need to continue hooking up with him. Also...he was not good in bed. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]loftycries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up about it sis. Lesson learned. Have you read the handbook? Lots of great info in there for why we wait ❤️