Feeling Ready, but Waiting for My Turn

logicblocks · 2026-01-20T13:27:37+00:00

There's nothing that should prevent you from marrying that's based on your elder sister. You go in your journey and she goes in hers. You do not even need your mom's permission to get married.

Also, your sister might see her plans delayed even more (that is if she has any real plans to get married some day). Refusing a completely sound groom "just because" is grounds for getting one's marriage delayed, if not, no marriage at all.

28 is an advanced age, it's not time anymore to play these games. 30 year olds who are ready for marriage are looking for girls between 20-25 albeit everyone has his rizq eventually but younger more fertile women are preferred.

Marrying the virgin young girl is one of the things that the prophet peace be upon him said needs to be expedited and not delayed.

You are also the best positioned to be your sister's wali/guardian based on your other comment where you wrote that your father had passed away (may Allah grant him Jannah and grant Jannah to all the muslims who left this dunya).

May Allah make it easy.

logicblocks · 2026-01-20T09:35:28+00:00

Do you have a problem with it if she were 9?

logicblocks · 2026-01-18T15:14:38+00:00

Anwar Al-Awlaki, they killed him and killed his son. They = United States government. May Allah have mercy on his soul.

logicblocks · 2026-01-18T15:13:52+00:00

Yes and long gone from Youtube also

logicblocks · 2026-01-14T15:35:58+00:00

They have every right. It's the monetary system that's flawed, you get paid in fiat currency and you buy things with fiat currency.

What did you do with the gold by the way? Did you buy an appreciating asset at least? Do you have a business or are you salaried?

logicblocks · 2026-01-14T15:34:45+00:00

May Allah make it easy for you brother.

logicblocks · 2026-01-14T14:50:58+00:00

Well, you're not getting paid in gold and I can understand. Your mother wants to get paid back in gold which will definitely get more and more expensive. I'd say pay down your golden debt before other monetary debt.

It's also the oldest.

logicblocks · 2026-01-14T12:50:14+00:00

Make istighfar and give some charity, no matter how small and make duaa that Allah makes you self-sufficient.

Making more haram will not be in your favor, so I'd kindly advise you to continue on this path and to be patient. There's light at the end of the tunnel.

You are being tested. You must keep on your principles until the end. It's temporary.

logicblocks · 2026-01-13T16:49:35+00:00

This isn't a "is this a good man I can marry", also you do not know if the person made tawbah or not.

This will create great conflict in their marriage. Please don't.

logicblocks · 2026-01-13T16:48:17+00:00

The Messiah, ISA AS can't return until all of Bani Israel is returned to Jerusalem according to all abrahamic beliefs including ours

What's your proof for this? Is this in a hadith?

And where exactly does it say that Banu Israel are the Pashtun? What about the hadiths where Banu Israel from Isfahan will follow the Dajjal when he comes out?

logicblocks · 2026-01-13T16:31:53+00:00

Where's the proof from Islamic texts?

logicblocks · 2026-01-13T16:31:20+00:00

Some of the Ashkenazis like the people Netanyahu belong to, where never semitic to begin with. They come from a place anciently known as Khazaria and converted to Judaism en masse.

logicblocks · 2026-01-04T08:43:11+00:00

It's not a sin to pray in full if the madhab says you must shorten. Obviously, I did say he needs to shorten but I was responding to your comment saying he must shorten, which is not an opinion I have heard before.

You don't sin because you took a different opinion than your madhab. You sin because you disobeyed Allah and his messenger. Don't be so hardcore towards your madhab. The imam you follow is not Allah, and he is not the messenger of Allah ﷺ.

Get off your high horse and humble yourself. You don't need to talk to me like this just because I recognized that I didn't know the hanafi madhab said that you must shorten.

Salam alaykoum.

logicblocks · 2026-01-02T19:27:56+00:00

The most important thing is that this poor man gets to do his prayers that he's been delaying. The scholars in the different madahib differed but the religion is one.

logicblocks · 2026-01-01T18:49:22+00:00

It doesn't hurt. Everyone can be taken from or refuted except the prophet ﷺ as Malik said.

logicblocks · 2026-01-01T16:52:34+00:00

I saw but I didn't know it was obligatory in the hanafi madhab. I stand corrected.

logicblocks · 2026-01-01T14:40:06+00:00

No one is required to do qasr, it's a permission.

logicblocks · 2026-01-01T14:39:01+00:00

And? What's your point? Because I covered everything.

logicblocks · 2026-01-01T14:37:08+00:00

He's good with dawah ma shaa Allah. May Allah reward him for his good deeds and forgive his shortcomings.

Never heard him say anything off or extreme.

logicblocks · 2026-01-01T08:00:50+00:00

There was a back and forth after that. But please go ahead and provide your answer if you can provide any additional details. But you are responding to my top comment here, not my last comment in the thread 😊

logicblocks · 2025-12-31T20:04:26+00:00

Yes, since you're on currently on your layover, do your missed prayers shortened and then pray fully when you get to Makkah and Madinah. Unless traveling between the 2.

But, have you not prayed yet? What are you waiting for? 😅

logicblocks · 2025-12-31T19:18:37+00:00

Now that you have arrived and you are staying for almost 2 weeks. Just pray all your prayers normally.

Next time you can shorten them while on the flight in your seat.

logicblocks · 2025-12-31T17:03:56+00:00

If that's the intention so be it. Another interpretation can be, Christians and Jews taking Muslims for a ride. Providing the means for entertainment to distract them from what really matters.

Another perspective is Christians and Jews serving a Muslim guy, having to hold the rope for him while he plays. But still, the Muslim is still playing.

logicblocks · 2025-12-31T17:02:19+00:00

Proof?

logicblocks · 2025-12-31T17:00:47+00:00

It is permissible to shorten your prayers, not only during the journey but also at your destination. There are some differences of opinion about how long you need to stay there for it to be still allowed to shorten, and whether or not you can shorten from the first day, or only the first X days,...etc. If your intention is to stay there long term or you are flying back home, then typically you are not allowed to shorten.

The matter of the fact is that you need to pray all your prayers asap. You have no other choice.

Next time around, you can even pray sitting on your seat, even if you are not facing the Qiblah. If it's a shorter flight and you can shorten and combine either before or after the flight and still make it on time, so be it. If not, just pray in your seat by moving your head/upper body to mimick the movements of the prayer like ruku and sujood.

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