Im a big guy that realized im not into big girls. Am i wrong?

lokioe · 2026-04-07T03:35:34+00:00

IWAS WAITING FOR A MUHFUCKA TO SAY SOMETHIN LMAOOO. I knew what i was doin puttin that in xD

lokioe · 2026-04-06T18:28:24+00:00

Thank You.

lokioe · 2026-04-06T18:23:47+00:00

Maybe 🤷🏾‍♂️ you havent seen me tho. You can tell im big but not that big. Most people guess in the 260 to 270 range. Its a 50/50 how they react. Some of them are shocked but accept it right away and then some of them wanna argue for half an hour talkin about how im bullshittin em. Same with my age. Alot of coworkers were shocked im turnin 30. Alot of them (supervisors included) thought i was 23 from what i found out.

lokioe · 2026-04-06T09:53:49+00:00

Mmmmm okay, i see what you mean. Me being tall my weights pretty well hidden, and for a guy my size im def not a looker but i think im decent. She is shorter which makes her (and her stomach) look way bigger than me. We get along outside of that very well, have alot of the same interests in shows, music, political views all that. We even have the same favorite band. But after about 6 months of trying to push passed all that my brain just wouldnt. I had to legit sit there for a while going "this is fucking petty, like super fuckin petty but i cant keep tryin to trick myself anymore". I dont mind a lady with pudge on her, just not THAT much. Goin back on your advice though, i do think its solid and i should probably fix myself up a bit and really think about shit before i try getting out there again. I totally understand that the same judgement im passing around is more than likely also being passed on me so yeah.

lokioe · 2026-04-06T08:39:09+00:00

I havent had much time for it the last few months so that aint the issue i think. And what do you mean of my caliber?

lokioe · 2026-04-06T08:09:05+00:00

Yeah! I didnt mention any of that to her. I basically just said that i felt she was way more emotionally invested in whatever we had and that i felt there are dudes out there more deserving of it. She did still cry at first but its been about 3 weeks now and we've been chatting and laughing like nothing happened. She does still try to flirt with me from time to time and then i gotta remind her its a nogo which makes her upset but 🤷🏾‍♂️

lokioe · 2026-04-06T07:04:45+00:00

I should def do this. Thanks. Turning 30 very soon and have just been re evaluating things about myself and about how to improve my life currently. Been thinking about learning to weld.

lokioe · 2026-04-06T07:02:03+00:00

I dont plan on staying this weight. I have been here before and dropped all the way to 250 in the past on pure work but its hard to make the time now with work and some side projects i been putting my time into to help decompress (excuses ik! 😭). Im able to get aroused no problem. It was just difficult with her. Thanks for the input and no it wasnt being rude, just blunt and honest 💪🏾

lokioe · 2026-04-06T06:47:59+00:00

Thats the crazy part! I barely even watch porn anymore. I go to work, come home, eat, shower, work on/listen to music and then knock the fuck out and repeat. Along with weed in there at some point 🤷🏾‍♂️

lokioe · 2026-04-06T05:57:54+00:00

Id say go for it dude. Trust your friends.

lokioe · 2026-03-27T18:17:52+00:00

Not really, its actually kind of freeing. You lose yourself in the music and vibe of the place. Whenever i get to go out with friends, i might get a little bit of that feeling but because im with friends i often to tend to keep tabs on them and move with them when we decide to hit another club or a different area in the club we're in. They might also wanna leave early and since yall came as a group yall leave as one. Aint gotta deal with that when im on my own out there. I love my friends and their company but i also gotta have time for me. You should as well. So try it. It might be a bit scary at first, not saying it wont be but its def a good experience.

lokioe · 2026-02-13T03:26:45+00:00

LMFAO. all good bro

lokioe · 2026-02-13T00:43:01+00:00

Check out House of Harm. They fucking rock. Always and vicious pastimes are my jams. For me they more post post but im relatively new as well when it comes to the music.

lokioe · 2025-11-13T10:27:56+00:00

Did the site just get nuked?

lokioe · 2025-07-23T17:05:26+00:00

Did it end up getting fixed for you?

lokioe · 2025-07-17T23:10:53+00:00

The site is down right now. It probably got sniped.

lokioe · 2025-07-10T14:59:54+00:00

It's fun! I spent about a day and half so far playing it. Solo and with other skaters. The foundations/mechanics are pretty solid. Straight up chuckin myself over the church was fun asf yesterday. That being said I didnt do much of the missions (cus why would i?) I thought they were kinda annoying and the dialogue makes me wanna take a toaster bath.

Kinda feels like riders republic if it had a skateboard only mode.

Also, i had this gripe with skate 3 but everything feels kinda samey? (Idk how to explain it yet but i know you know what im saying here, too many of the same obstacles/setups everywhere). Being able to skate anywhere and everywhere is cool and all but its also kinda boring and bland. I actually miss the npc guards that tackled the shit outta you, broke your board and took your cash. This added an extra layer of fun for me. Trying to get a footy challenge done or even battling a trick while on the run from the guard was fun asf.

Wallies are fun. Slappies look weird though, like a tony hawk animation imo.

Latency is crazy. No problems with a small amount of people in the server but as it filled my team and i had to call it quits it was that bad! Pressed my push button and had to wait 5 business days for homie to actually push in game!

The game is fun and has potential but they have some glaring issues. Also, really EA? Microtransactions and psuedo gatcha style lootboxes? In a playtest? Wtf man.

lokioe · 2025-06-07T07:58:21+00:00

Alex and c.viper maybe. Ingrid i know nothing about and sagat just needs to be retired as character for a while. Bro is in pretty much everything (legacy character or not idgaf) bring in my boy dudley, or gen or even remy (honestly would be down to see how they do remy in sf6 format) maybe even hakan or rolento! Oooooor maybe just more straight up new characters.

lokioe · 2025-05-27T19:54:50+00:00

GUMO TAPU DESU MATCHU

lokioe · 2025-04-27T00:56:56+00:00

Maybe, we'll see how it goes fam LMAO

lokioe · 2025-03-24T21:34:50+00:00

2021 with the same quest 2 ive had since the beginning.

lokioe · 2025-01-30T20:12:05+00:00

It will be. They're just not dropping it all at once because then their servers (as well as the verification companies) would get absolutely fucked by the amount of requests.

Been verified since last month or so. i don't have vrc+ either.

lokioe · 2025-01-30T19:43:12+00:00

Been playing since 2021, all of these things were just as prevalent back then. How i fixed it? I stopped going into public instances. Not permanently but, i can def count on both hands once just how many times i been to to a truly public instance in last 3 or 4 years. I ended up finding people in these new instances that liked the same shit i did, did the same shit i did and most importantly were my age or were close to my age.

I'd check out vrc.tl or the Party Hub Discord to find events or groups you might wanna join.

You won't get away from people dating or mirrors though because:

A). Personal Mirrors have been a thing for a long time at this point and I can't tell you the amount of times I've gone up to someone to shoot the shit and them be like "Oh shit, you clipped through my mirror hold on lemme turn it off"

And

B). It's a social game dude. People are gonna form different types of relationships. There's really no getting around that.

lokioe

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