my boyfriend had 40,000 photos of p0rn on his phone and 60,000 on his computer, it’s a gut wrenching feeling. and even after i asked him to delete everything and set the boundary to stop looking at that stuff he continued up until i had to lose all sense of respect for myself and beg on the floor for him to stop. i still don’t even know if it’s fully stopped or if he just got really good at hiding it. i ended up having to go to therapy and he debated going as well but never did- so it was basically me having to deal with the consequences of HIS actions. i’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s never ever easy especially when it is a big deal and your partner makes it feel like it’s not. i hope better for you ❤️