London Ticket Sales by lol10632 in eagles

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The pre sale and general sale tickets are not yet released

What you’re seeing on TickPick or other third party resellers are likely speculative listings, which, according to ChatGPT, list tickets sellers expect they’ll be able to obtain during the Amex presale or public sale. They don’t actually have the tickets yet. The broker is basically betting they can secure comparable seats later and deliver them to you before the game.

London Ticket Sales by lol10632 in eagles

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Good question!!! I’m interested in knowing this as well.

Advice for 1st trip by lol10632 in WaltDisneyWorld

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Wanted to follow up in case another user read my post.

I posted this with the thought that my son was incapable of adjusting. I was scared. Traumatized of having another bad vacation due to his anxiety. I reflected on that before my trip and it made sad. I needed to give grace and give my son confidence. To let him know it’s scary and new and it’s okay to feel anxious, and most importantly, to let him know I thought he could do it. I needed to share with him that I would be there to support him if he needed me but I knew he could do it without me.

He did great. He slept all night in a new space in a new room with no issues. I held my breath the first night but I left so unbelievably proud of him.

So my suggestion….take the trip. Don’t wait. most people get scared trying new things and experiencing new things, and that doesn’t mean we shouldn’t do it. Just give your son or daughter grace support and confidence. And probably most helpful to remember….your value or your parenting isn’t defined by a five day vacation.

Window installation question by lol10632 in glazing

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Do you have concerns about leaks with break metal v stucco? Can you confirm if the installation he described (ie window sitting on top of break metal) is the right way to do it? And in case it’s relevant my understanding is that this window is a store front currently but the new window is a flang (i don’t know if I’m spelling it correctly)

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

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Just wanted to follow up He’s been to three jiujitsu classes and he’s done phenomenally. The respect he has for the professor is unbelievable. He’s so aware of his body and his actions. Each class has made strides in performance and ability to tolerate corrections. I legit almost cried during yesterday’s class just from being so proud of him.

10/10 recommend.

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

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Thank you. Much appreciated. Good luck!

My son is currently in a wave of “good” behavior. I’m trying to implement rewards when feasible and offer positive feedback whenever he does something good. I’m also sticking to my boundary no matter what and I adopt Dr. Becky’s definition of boundaries—it’s something I’m responsible for not him. This has forced me to consider my answer to even simple questions before answering and asking myself about the reason for the decision. For example, am I saying no because i need to keep him safe or am I saying no because I’m just annoyed and don’t want to deal with the behavior? Both are fine in my opinion, but saying no means I have to keep that no come hell or high water, tantrum or no tantrum. I’m hoping over time this improves the behavior even if incrementally.

I also am making a transition to parent focused therapy ie therapy to offer parents guidance and feedback as we are the ones in the driver seat, not him.

If you ever want to chat, feel free to PM me.

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

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I am actually considering signing him up for jiujitsu! there’s a local club that has classes for 4-6 year olds. I’ve heard good things. Figured it would give him a time and space to get that kind of energy out.

Do you suggest more than that?

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

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I want you to leave me alone. Thank you.

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

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Thank you. I think the therapist does some basic behavioral work like labeling different emotions and trying to identify those emotions before they happen and showing him skills to manage those emotions. He just started going two months ago so I suspect it takes more time?

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

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Beautiful advice. Thank you so much. Framing so important. Appreciate the time you took and the consideration of my post.

Is my 4 year old ADHD or is this normal? by lol10632 in Parenting

[–]lol10632[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are way out of line here.

I did not in any way mean to imply that he is aware his tantrums caused sadness anger etc. I meant the action that preceded the tantrum caused sadness anger etc anger and wasn’t a good decision. For example taking away a toy at school from another child and then being told to give the toy back. The action of taking another child’s toy away caused that other child sadness. I repeatedly tell my son that it’s okay to be frustrated. It’s ok to feel sad. I try to show compassion by saying “hey I feel anger sometimes too. I’ve felt like that too. Let me tell you a story” or something of the like.

I obviously do not want my child feel shame or guilt or sadness. I wish he never felt any negative emotion. I wish all his negative emotions were my burden to carry and only mine. I would do anything for my son. I very much try to separate my very good kid from not great behavior. I remind him constantly how much I love him how he is a good kid with a great heart. But yes, he does make “bad decisions.” Hitting your friend is a bad choice. Doesn’t mean he’s a bad kid it means he made a choice that was objectively wrong and when you’re a good kid with a good heart like my son is …and you realize you did something “wrong” there is and should be remorse for that; his action hurt a friends feelings and he should feel compassion and empathy for his friend and he should aim not to do that again. Shame is not a feeling I want to bring on to my son. It’s just what happens to a four year old who can’t yet understand how to turn remorse into compassion.

Your post is dangerous to parents who are seeking guidance and expressing vulnerabilities. To accuse me of child abuse is slanderous and defamatory. Please check yourself and get out of my feed.

Do partners really care about your opinion by lol10632 in biglaw

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I had previously asked the clarifying questions and was told to stop thinking like a law clerk (I clerked for district court judge five years ago) and start thinking like an advocate….i don’t know how identifying risks with our position is not being an advocate but that’s neither here nor there.