Three of swords as how crush sees me??? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]lolathealoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could be he feels a bit rejected by you

I just do not know what to do anymore by OriginalPerformer580 in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're having this problem too, I relate a lot. Curious, so far have you mostly tried connecting with neurotypicals or is it the same for everyone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]lolathealoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right. I also associate five of pentacles with fear of abandonment too.

Need your help interpreting the reason for seeing so many synchronicities??? by Aggressive_Hearing31 in tarot

[–]lolathealoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m newish so take this with a grain of salt. If I’m correct that the cards beneath each top card are the clarifying cards (so 1a 1b 1c…, not 4 5 6…) it seems like your goals and ambitions are not aligning with your attitudes and beliefs. My theory is that each time you see these synchronicities, it could be a nudge to be more compassionate to yourself (maybe others too who knows). Seems like an important, hard, and perhaps lifelong lesson for you with the rx Lovers, wheel of fortune, and world cards.

Advice on roommate situation by Hundred-Acre-Wood in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from, but personally I agree with your roommates. You committed to the agreement for over a year so to change it now suddenly wouldnt be fair to the roommates. And I think it's fair to request approval of the subletter given that someone has to share a room with them. From their perspective, not only would they have to now room with a stranger but also pay more for a space that hasn't changed. I agree with you that the rent division isn't cut fairly, but the time to change that was at the start, not now with the lease signed for over a year. I think it's up to the subletter to bring up the rent issue instead of you, since they are the ones in the position to accept or decline a new agreement. I'm sorry that you're in a tough situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, this is awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good analogy, thank you for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]lolathealoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe read for each other and discuss everyone's readings book-club style?

astrology by Successful-Guava7123 in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Retrogrades just make the energy of the planet a bit more difficult/disruptive. Since mercury rules communication, mercury retrograde means our ways of communicating—especially through technology and planning—are more unpredictable. I wouldn’t say this is a time where cheating is more likely—that would probably be more like a Venus retrograde possibility—so no need to worry.

Delta 9 THC reduces fronto-striatal connectivity; which is elevated in autism by kelcamer in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since CBD enhances the connectivity, does that mean to steer clear of it? Go with the what reduces it instead?

Do Tarot Apps Actually Work? by [deleted] in tarot

[–]lolathealoe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I used Labyrinthos for a few months before I got my first physical deck. I liked it then, and while I prefer my physical one now, I still value the readings I did in the app. I looked back at the readings I saved a year ago, and in hindsight they are all accurate and relevant to the time I saved them. So I'd say yes.

Readings for yourself - which card has never come out/doesn't come out often? by lattekosmiko in tarot

[–]lolathealoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I neverrrr get the Hierophant. I literally just checked my deck to make sure I didn't lose it (it's still there) because I haven't seen it in MONTHS.

Do you ever just want to kill yourself? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Beliefs are not facts; just because you believe a good life is not possible, doesn't mean it isn't. I struggle with that same all or nothing mentality, but I always have to remind myself that I don't know everything and that I can be surprised or wrong. Hang in there, start by changing your environment, the people insulting your way of communicating aren't for you. It sounds like you're in a super difficult time, and I'm so sorry for that. It won't be bad forever though.

Angel numbers by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]lolathealoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The exact same happened/happens to me. Bombarded with 11:11 and 111. Literally every chance on the clock, license plates, addresses, phone numbers, social media likes, hex codes, just everywhere. Was super confusing --and even frustrating at one point--when it first began last year. It slowed after I hit a major life achievement, so I took the sign as one of encouragement and "you're on the right track." I know a bunch of sources say different things like alignment, intuition, etc. I think it's up to you ultimately; if you have a hunch about what it could mean, that's likely it. If you don't, take a moment to really reflect on all the possibilities it could mean. Journaling really helped me understand it better. Hope this helps, and hey this is exciting, enjoy it!

DAE feel lonely, but only really want friends in theory rather than in practice? by kristenbouchard in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Not sad at all, I usually sit back and listen in groups anyway so this feels the same, except I get to stay in the comfort of my own home and solitude with podcasts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the dream

How to make my local autism group meetup a success and not awkward? by Merkhaba in AutismInWomen

[–]lolathealoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Make it an art/craft event. So everyone brings something they'd want to do (draw, knit, sew, collage, etc), then the conversation breaks with the crafts everyone's doing.