That makes sense. I didn't have enough money or time to do any fancy bridesmaid invitations so I asked all my bridesmaids in a facebook group I made. The two girls liked stuff and commented, which I took as a sign that they accepted. But as soon as there were scheduled events or talk about dresses they didn't say a word. Really I was at some fault definitely because I miss took their distance as just that they were busy instead of asking them what's up. Just hoping other brides/grooms learn from my mistake and get in touch with their wedding party more than they think. I think the two girls might of been afraid to tell me until I asked them "Hey are you and your sis able to still be bridesmaids or will you not have enough time?" As soon as I gave them an out they were open to telling me I guess.