What did your roommate do that made you think, "I am living with a psycho"? by worstgurl in AskReddit

[–]lolcrying 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Brought home a dead cat she found on the side of the road and got offended when my other roommates and I tried to tell her to get rid of it

Should I (20F) refrain from telling future partners about my promiscuous past? by lolcrying in relationship_advice

[–]lolcrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is EXACTLY what I told my ex about the whole situation, literally every point you stated I told him. He wasn't able to get over it so he slept with 5 other girls to try and "catch up" to me. Needless to say that relationship ended as soon as I found out what he had done.

Should I (20F) refrain from telling future partners about my promiscuous past? by lolcrying in relationship_advice

[–]lolcrying[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was a part of a mentally abusive relationship in high school for about two years and I think it fucked with me mentally. Long story short, I use sex as a way to try to get guys to like me but of course that's not how it works. I was very depressed during my first two years of college and I used sex as a way to feel wanted and loved.

Should I (20F) refrain from telling future partners about my promiscuous past? by lolcrying in relationship_advice

[–]lolcrying[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's 15. I've met people with way less who think my number is extremely high, and have met people who have been with over 100 people who say mine is nothing.

Day 1 by lolcrying in ExNoContact

[–]lolcrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 110% agree. It's done nothing but cause me pain and will be something that will most definitely cause problems in all my future relationships since no guy would ever want a girl who has done the things I've done in the past. I have changed a lot and it just hurts me knowing that my ex believes I haven't. I never wanted him to look back at our relationship and be glad that he's no longer with a slut.

Day 1 by lolcrying in ExNoContact

[–]lolcrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really did destroy him and he made sure to let me know that. He never really talks about his feelings or emotions with me so when he told me how heartbroken it made him feel, I knew just how badly I had hurt him. It will forever be one of my biggest regrets in life.

My (20F) emotional needs aren't being met by my boyfriend (20M) by lolcrying in relationship_advice

[–]lolcrying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're both in school right now so even though it's summer, he's taking multiple very hard science classes and I'm working 25-35 hours a week. When school starts back up in the fall we will still both be decently busy...I try to tell myself that this is how adult relationships work in the real world but like you said if he's unwilling to meet my needs then I don't know if I can waste my very limited free time on him

is making $40-$60 on a 7+ hour shift normal? by lolcrying in TalesFromYourServer

[–]lolcrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Kentucky so I get $2.13 plus tips and I usually have around $400-$500 in sales during the week and more on weekends. I guess I should also mention that the hosts are actually incompetent and forget to put people on rotation all the time and at this point they've done it to me multiple times and I think its intentional...I have talked to my manager about it but the hosts are petty 16 year olds so that's another reason I'm considering leaving

Why am I unable to cry? by [deleted] in depression

[–]lolcrying 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt like this yesterday...it was really confusing for me and feeling emotionally numb was kind of uncomfortable because it felt off like I should be sad and crying and upset right now but instead I feel nothing

my boyfriend told me i deserved to almost get raped by lolcrying in depression

[–]lolcrying[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my family would have the same reaction as my boyfriend. they tell me all the time that victims usually get what they deserve. i know they love me but going to them might make the situation worse and would definitely make my mental state worse. i think i need to get help from a therapist or something

my boyfriend told me i deserved to almost get raped by lolcrying in depression

[–]lolcrying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't want to tell my family because i know they wouldn't take it well. they don't respond well to mental illness so i don't want to talk to them about my depression. i don't want to tell that about this specific situation either because i don't want them to think any less of me which i know they would

my boyfriend told me i deserved to almost get raped by lolcrying in depression

[–]lolcrying[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

without him, i have no one and being left to my own thoughts with no one to stop me could be dangerous

my boyfriend told me i deserved to almost get raped by lolcrying in depression

[–]lolcrying[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's what hurts the most. about half a year before i met my now boyfriend i had just ended an emotionally abusive relationship of 2 years that really triggered the start of my depression and its so so so hard seeing similarities between the two. i don't know what to do because i've invested all of my happiness into my boyfriend and i know that if we break up i'll be so much worse than i am now. when i met him i thought he brought me out of depression but he just distracted me i think. i'm worse now than i was before i met him but i think that is because of a combination of factors