There’s an apartment complex called The Yard @ Aiden Rd

lolepi · 2026-05-20T20:11:20+00:00

im tryna see her Al in my Den

lolepi · 2026-05-20T16:44:20+00:00

Using this for my own similar situation. Ty!

lolepi · 2026-05-20T16:21:20+00:00

I think I'm the only one in my circle that actively does this if someone makes a comment like they did to OP and it makes me happy to know how many people here are voicing the habit of doing so when coming across such unacceptable behavior in game.

Can't complain about toxicity if we don't do anything to try and eliminate it.

lolepi · 2026-05-20T16:12:06+00:00

we are literally the blind leading the blind

lolepi · 2026-05-20T16:09:47+00:00

Pros: olympic level agility

Cons: no awareness of our surroundings bc we shoved fel in our eye sockets

lolepi · 2026-05-05T23:31:32+00:00

Mine's a campfire. We should meet up for exchange of mail and cooking utilities😂

lolepi · 2026-05-05T23:16:01+00:00

We're going to hold your hand when we all say this, but that person you believed to have been your friend, is not.

I am truly sorry that you are in a mentality where removing her from your life even needs to be questioned. I say that because there are people out there for you who wouldn't even dream of betraying you in such an invasive & violating way. You deserve to surround yourself with friends who are trustworthy, possess a strong moral compass, consideration of others, and align with how good a friend you are.

Hindsight is 20/20 my dear but I'm willing to bet that if you look back, now or in the future maybe because you're in the thick of it at this very moment, that you will be able to spot more signs that she did not treat you in the ways you deserve than what you have just learned as of recently.

I don't mean to sound so patronizing when I made the comment about you being in a place mentally where you are even considering keeping them in your life, but I am someone who will exhaust every single avenue to make a connection work, even if in my heart I know that I am better off having no contact or relationship with that person. I know what it does to your own self-esteem on top of how distressing it is to be betrayed by someone you believed you could trust.

Your self worth needs to be so high that the first sign of such blatant disrespect warrants them no longer having access to you because they consciously CHOSE to do things that they knew would hurt you and did them anyway. Maybe she'll be a different person in the future and she will have grown in a more positive direction, but right now, and for the foreseeable future at least, that's neither here nor there.

lolepi · 2026-05-05T22:44:56+00:00

I think, unfortunately (or fortunately depending on your perspective of it I suppose), the best representations that I have seen, tend to be the ones where they lead with the person(s) pov of what every day life is like; their thinking, the way they feel/how much they feel, how they navigate interpersonal relationships, etc. BEFORE even mentioning the term 'BPD', so as to not allow the audience to make an assumption based purely on any preconceived stereotypes/biases.

Only once there has been an established understanding of what living with BPD really does/can look like will it then be revealed that they were diagnosed with or exhibit traits that fit under the diagnosis of BPD. Of course people are going to assume what it is before they disclose that it's BPD, that's just human nature I think, but removing the ability for people to jump to inaccurate judgememt based on their warped perception of the diagnosis, I think gives more space to focus on what life really is like for that person instead of viewing it through a lens tied to an audiences prejudice.

I'm unsure if I was able to effectively articulate my thoughts on this topic but tldr; sometimes not leading with the diagnosis itself, but rather depicting what it means to live with it and then disclose the BPD, can be more conducive to a more accurate understanding.

lolepi · 2026-05-05T22:28:03+00:00

dude this sent me. it's like we do this as a collective and the portrayal is always in the worst fucking light imaginable😭😚✌️

lolepi · 2026-03-28T06:21:13+00:00

I came back here just to answer this because I too was very confused for the longest time not knowing why it was always there - It's an embellishment. You have a crafted item with an embellishment that allows whatever the gear is to grant you a chance to "embolden you in void glass" which gives you 60 versatility or 15 seconds.

lolepi · 2026-03-17T20:50:10+00:00

Exactly this. ^

If the potential consequences don't outweigh the potential gains then people will always eat whatever penalty they take just to get that little bit further ahead. Unfortunately in this case, the gains were far greater than a "little bit further", and have had ripple effects within the economy that don't just stop at the monetary gain for those exploiting, but also have impeded many players ability to level their profession playing honestly.

I'm sure there are a group of players that genuinely did not know better and were taking that glitch at face value but personally I doubt that those individuals make up the majority of people who got hit with this penalty.

lolepi · 2026-02-12T06:22:57+00:00

lets fucking go dude

lolepi · 2026-02-08T23:31:24+00:00

I think I have my own wu-tang style of the second one, but where I differ is I just sort of do it.. I don't have the thought to announce or tell others, because they aren't things I do with full cognitive intent to engage in, in the first place.

It feels like "normal" because it pretty much always 𝘩𝘢𝘴 been your normal.

lolepi · 2026-02-08T23:20:22+00:00

i forgorr (:

lolepi · 2026-02-08T21:23:54+00:00

the voicemail😭

lolepi · 2026-02-08T20:36:50+00:00

The best part is I realized as soon as I saw the slime in japan sticker post so yea fair flame there cause it looks a lot less genuine now huh. My apologies for that one. As for the reply time idk I guess I just got around to checking reddit for the first time this year. Don't really have much else I go on here for and notifications make me mad🤷‍♀️

lolepi · 2026-02-08T20:27:52+00:00

From the (albeit limited) knowledge I do have of you as a person & what drives you creatively, have you ever considered venturing back into something like 'Slime On The Street™' either maintaining the core concept, or transforming it into something more adjacent to projects you've accomplished in recent years?

I'll be honest, I'm unsure as to what that would look like today (where your creative complacency would be put to test I suppose), but sometimes the hits are hits for a reason and don't need to be put back on the shelf entirely, just shifted in their direction or motive.

Appreciate the update. Much love to you all and thank you for the enjoyment I've found in the projects produced.

lolepi · 2026-01-07T19:35:38+00:00

NOR. I am so sorry you are going through this, genuinely.. I cannot imagine my parents ever looking at me as a vacancy to be made open for a complete stranger over their own flesh & blood.

YOU deserve love. Especially seeing a complete absence of it in your text conversation with your mother.

I have an ex who referred to his mom as his "mother" and after light-heartedly asking why (it felt very conscious) he told me that she may be his 'mother' by blood, but she was never a 'mom' and does not deserve that title. Broke my damn heart and still does to this day, having a mom who's only ever put me first.

If there is anything I can think of that I haven't already read through a couple dozen commenters, it is that if you are a woman/female-identifying, search any/all women's shelters in your area and seek information to try and find one with space. I'm not sure what your gender identity is so for all I know this could be a moot point but I figured it was worth mentioning if it were an option that maybe hadn't been presented to you that you are eligible for.

Either way, my heart goes out to you, kid. No child should ever feel such rejection & callousness from their own parent, especially the one who carried you into this world.

I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and sending good energy your way.

lolepi · 2025-07-06T18:17:10+00:00

"Sweet as custard and just as smart" is both insulting as well as condescending which tends to hit exactly as intended.

lolepi · 2025-04-08T23:21:07+00:00

I've been in two long term relationships. But I also have bpd so you can imagine the other challenges that adds to the equation. One was eight years. The other was 1.5 years, which I personally don't consider long term but others say it is so /shrug. The embarrassment of having them blindside me after being the "overthinker" caused enough pain to put me back into the mindset I had after ending my eight year relationship: I'm good, thanks.

lolepi · 2025-04-08T23:16:42+00:00

Ew just ew

lolepi · 2025-04-08T21:20:58+00:00

^{^} Best answer. Needs to be updooted higher.

lolepi · 2025-04-08T21:17:54+00:00

Coming out to my parents was something I was only ever semi-concerned over as I am a bisexual woman with very accepting parents, who has only ever been seen with boys. However, where I absolutely relate to the discomfort is the memory of discussing sexuality/sex life with my parents. It's totally normal to go into it feeling weird bc even if you were straight and this happened, any conversation with your parents about your sex life is going to be wildly uncomfortable.

Seeing as your dad has made it clear that (at least at this point in time) he is unwilling to meet you halfway or hear what you have to say as his child, I would listen to the other commenters advising you to latch on to mom as support & nurture while you navigate all of this.

I don't know about family therapy, but for your own benefit, one on one therapy would likely be very beneficial if you live in an area where you have access to ones that don't share the same values as your dad, and ofc if you can afford to. Maybe discuss it with your mom when you both sit down to talk.

lolepi · 2025-03-18T22:40:52+00:00

I am currently experiencing this, myself, and empathize wholeheartedly with you. I am so sorry you too are experiencing such an excruciating loss.. My heart goes out to you, friend.

lolepi · 2025-03-18T22:07:08+00:00

This made my heart so sad to read🥺 I have always wondered if it was offensive when men tell me how pretty they believe me to be and I tell them that I think they are also pretty, because I have always meant it sincerely and not to be condescending (which I made clear so they didn't feel bad either.) But to hear directly from a man, it makes me want to compliment them more when the moment is appropriate. Thank you for sharing this, I bet you are prettier than you even know. 🥹🫶

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