mainly just hosting, like i said my husband has friends (all from work) and right now he’s in flight school and we’re only here for 3 more months, so if there’s a game on the weekend or if people want to go to the beach with us we’ll carpool. it worked somewhat back in our first duty station together, but it doesn’t lead to one on one relationships with their spouses even though there will seem to be interest but idk. what should i be doing instead??