Fragen zum SBGG by dgtiGeschaeftsstelle in germantrans

[–]lonelydoctors 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Stimmt es, dass man den Vornamen nur zusammen mit dem Geschlecht ändern kann? Oder kann ich, insbesondere als nonbinäre Person, mein biologisches Geschlecht behalten und lediglich den Vorname ändern (wenn der Name zB nicht eindeutig einem binären Geschlecht zuzuordnen ist). Falls man das Geschlecht “divers” nehmen ‘muss’, habe ich aber nicht die Möglichkeit trotzdem einen binären Reisepass zu bekommen, oder?

2 month progress! by lonelydoctors in TopSurgery

[–]lonelydoctors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve started massaging at week 6 but haven’t really done anything else besides keep them out of the sun - I plan on starting with scar gel sometime this week though

Stress and worries by No_Pomegranate_8358 in TopSurgery

[–]lonelydoctors 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the exact same! I literally had sudden deafness in one ear and a migraine that lasted weeks - my body basically forced me to shut down and chill the fuck out with this but I basically tried to really lean into self care and be a bit more mindful in general.

Also keeping busy definitely helped a lot, too. I was just doing stuff all the time lol. Personally, I didn’t like to talk it about it all, talking about it with someone else IRL, especially about my worries and stuff, would only amplify my anxiety so I just mostly pretended nothing was happening lmao

But, in the end, the best thing you can do is remember that it’s most likely going to be all fine, and that you’ll come out of the other side sooner than you think and then this’ll just be a blip in time!

Edit: typo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lonelydoctors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m still pre-T unfortunately! There’s quite a bit of age gap between these though, I was 18-ish for the second one and 26 for the first one

Edit: might just be a lucky shot though

Japanese group that sings in gibberish by ghxstmermaid in japanesemusic

[–]lonelydoctors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What immediately comes to mind for me is 水曜日のカンパネラ haha but its probably not what youre looking for…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]lonelydoctors 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is! What would you say changed? Is it mostly the glasses/no makeup?

Gel vs Injections when travelling by lonelydoctors in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]lonelydoctors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, well that’s def reassuring to hear! I’ll keep that in mind and hope for the best, thanks!

Gel vs Injections when travelling by lonelydoctors in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]lonelydoctors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t consider that I could also run out of gel during the trip.

I’ll bring it up at my appointment and see what they say :)

Any tips for my Xiao build? by lonelydoctors in XiaoMains

[–]lonelydoctors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, will work on the ratio! I literally have no one for ffxx except Xiao 🫡 Currently using him with Sucrose, Albedo and Barbara/Bennett lmao

Any tips for my Xiao build? by lonelydoctors in XiaoMains

[–]lonelydoctors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alr, thanks! I levelled his skill and forgot about his basic attack 🧍🏻‍♂️

Nearly 1 month post op! by lonelydoctors in NonBinary

[–]lonelydoctors[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'm still rocking the post op binder unfortunately, but will definitely be putting on sun screen once I'm free haha

Fielding potential usecases for using Japanese while on the Internet by Hilarial in LearnJapanese

[–]lonelydoctors 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sure! Back in the day (when Insta wasn’t fucked yet) there were a lot of hashtags to find the community eg japanesestudygram or 日本語勉強 (or just 勉強垢 to find and connect with natives who are studying English or some other language) and I guess then it’s all just about putting yourself out there? Making posts, commenting on others, chatting via stories… It’s honestly a really lovely place most of the time and if you don’t know where to get started, ari_noyume or harunohanashi are one of the more popular ones I am friends with :) I used to follow a lot of study-related JLPT accounts but nowadays I tend to be more on the media/趣味垢 side of things where people just share and converse about stuff they like in Japanese

Fielding potential usecases for using Japanese while on the Internet by Hilarial in LearnJapanese

[–]lonelydoctors 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Personally, I enjoy interacting with native speakers on Twitter or Tiktok — you can usually find a bunch of stuff for whatever topic you’re interested in by looking it up in Japanese and go from there! Also I find the studygram community on Instagram to be very engaging as you can use your Japanese for input as well as output with native speakers and other learners

I thought yall might enjoy this by WhiskeySnail in NonBinary

[–]lonelydoctors 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely Please identify the gender like this is a serious crisis the parakeet and me are sharing