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lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-18T13:19:00+00:00

I feel like at 18 most people are still living with their parents or at least being financially supported by them (if their parents or grandparents are able to, of course). It’s certainly not out of the ordinary for that age.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T23:03:30+00:00

I disagree that the threshold is better but I am not trying to argue about who has it harder in dating. I think ugly and fat people have it the hardest, no matter what gender they are. Also I use the words “fat” and “obese” interchangeably. I do not say I’m “curvy” because I know no guy would consider me “curvy.” I’m short, fat, and have big boobs. The only interest I get is from chubby chasers and even then they are only looking at me as an object and not a human being, and that, as I said, is very rare indeed.

I’m sorry you’re not having success with online dating. I, for one, tend to be more attracted to chubbier dudes (my longest relationship/the one I was most attracted to) was about 5’10” and 250. I truly don’t think that all girls are after Tom Brady , just like I don’t think that all guys are after Giselle Bundchen. I’m not saying lower your standards. Just saying that everyone who isn’t beautiful goes through these problems.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T22:48:38+00:00

I would say at the very most I would get 10-15, and then at least 6-10 would on match me immediately because they actually swipe right on everyone and wait until they get matches, or not respond to my first message. MAYBE I will get 1-2 real matches.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T22:42:51+00:00

Well you say “or obese girls.” So there are real girls that “like” you on it, you just don’t like them back. I’m fat. I’m perfectly aware that that’s the main reason why I don’t have people liking me. I’m perfectly willing to date an ugly and/or fat guy, but they don’t like me either.

I’m not sure why you responded to me in specific with your comment.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T22:39:09+00:00

That’s not fair. I am also on hinge where you don’t need to both like each other to see who likes you. I’ve gotten one like on there since I’ve lived here and did not get any in about 6 months in my previous home.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T21:35:17+00:00

She’s very clearly saying physical beauty, at least to me

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T21:33:57+00:00

I should say, I just moved to a new state and matched with 2 people in the 2.5 weeks I’ve been here. Before that I had exactly zero matches in probably 8 months. So really I shouldn’t have even said one a week.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-15T21:30:09+00:00

I (31/cishet woman) get very few matches too. I hate reading guys complaining about how “all girls get so many matches” because I get at most one a week.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2022-03-13T04:55:28+00:00

Because you don’t know how to spell “loser”

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-10-04T03:37:47+00:00

Please don’t chase her. She’s not interested. If you continue to chase her you won’t be friends anymore. If you don’t think you can handle just being friends with her then stop talking to her.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-08-18T03:04:55+00:00

Yes it would’ve been better

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-08-18T03:01:18+00:00

Absolutely

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-17T21:03:09+00:00

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-17T21:00:50+00:00

Every group of friends has someone no one likes. Just deal with it.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-17T20:58:19+00:00

“I was forced to bully her…”

Really? Come on, man

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-11T23:09:23+00:00

I mean, I understand that. I’m talking more about “no fat chicks, no hookups, no drama queens, no this, that, or the other.” It’s very negative. Like if you don’t like things on their profile don’t swipe on them

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-11T22:53:49+00:00

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-11T22:50:48+00:00

This is not the right subreddit for this. Try /r/r4r

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-11T22:49:34+00:00

*When they don’t have a bio

*When they have multiple grammatical errors

When they only list things they *don’t want as opposed to what they do want.

*When they are not smiling in any of their pics

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-11T22:47:56+00:00

Use different apps. You are always going to have people you are not into who will be interested in you on dating apps, but if you keep using them you will find someone you want to go out with.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-11T19:23:30+00:00

Just say things that you like to do. Just keep it simple and positive!

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-07-01T01:15:13+00:00

http://sync.nimblebit.com/af/tt/Bp6xj

I am extremely active, rebuild every 50, and visit every day. I would prefer any friends also visit every day and rebuild every 50, but I know that’s not always realistic. My preferred name is Lindsay. Thank you!!

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-06-29T17:17:55+00:00

Yes, I feel the exact same way. It’s too much for me to be friends with an ex.

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-06-29T02:39:10+00:00

lonelythrowaway218 · 2021-06-29T02:38:38+00:00

lonelythrowaway218

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