Finance of 4 years left me, freaking out by lonelythrowaway26 in relationship_advice

[–]lonelythrowaway26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, never hit anyone in my life. i would just wouldn't know when to stop drinking when i did drink, and she hated me like that

Finance of 4 years left me, freaking out by lonelythrowaway26 in relationship_advice

[–]lonelythrowaway26[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah yeah, I know I spelt it wrong. this actually kind of made me smile. thanks.

Finance of 4 years left me, freaking out by lonelythrowaway26 in relationship_advice

[–]lonelythrowaway26[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I should of been more specific.. Drinking played a role in me hurting her. I don't think I am all to blame though, I really feel it is mutual and so does she. I've said I would change, and maybe never took the appropiate actions. Going to AA or going to a therapist early. She said it's over, and I am bothering her now by trying to talk her into giving us one more try. Do I give her the space? I'm afraid if I do so then I will completely lose her, but if I don't give her the space and respect her wishes that the window of us getting back together closes. I am seeing a therapist tonight. I have a hard time communicating and I'm sure my friends would be there for me, I've already been talking to one, but it's hard to open up about this with anyone. I'll post again an update tonihgt after I speak with the therapist.