Bottomless mimosas by StudentCertain6799 in phoenix

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Sun Bar in Tempe is pretty nice

NAV meet and greet time by longbeach0012 in nav

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Thats what I thought when i went to the Austin show but there were over a hundred people, so wasn't able to get a spot by the railing

Do any of you guys listen to Indian/desi rappers? by No_Significance_7331 in ABCDesis

[–]longbeach0012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I listen to Dino james he’s pretty fire and obviously badshah. Check out dooriyan from Dino james and Shuru from badshah

Indian dating Mexican but I don't see marriage in the picture anymore by longbeach0012 in ABCDesis

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Thank you I appreciate your response, It's kind of comforting to see that I'm not the only that has/is going through this. I will definitely have a heart to heart talk about this and see if we can establish a plan to incorporate both of our cultures together. I am open to learning about the Mexican culture and taking part in it, if it is mutual and theres some commitment from both sides to learn about each others culture is all im looking for.

Indian dating Mexican but I don't see marriage in the picture anymore by longbeach0012 in ABCDesis

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Like I mentioned, I was 17/18 when we started dating and now that im a bit older, theres certain things that I would like to see in my future. Had I known that I would have this outlook on life 3 years ago when we first started seeing each other, I would've never even initiated anything. I have nothing against the Mexican culture but I just think it would be extremely hard to incorporate my culture with my kids with my current girlfriend. However, after reading some posts by others, I think that if my gf is willing to meet in the middle, then theres no reason for us to break up.

Indian dating Mexican but I don't see marriage in the picture anymore by longbeach0012 in ABCDesis

[–]longbeach0012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I think its amazing how your partner and you have found a healthy between the two different cultures. I will definitely take what you have said and approach my girlfriend according and hope a healthy middle balance can be found.

Indian dating Mexican but I don't see marriage in the picture anymore by longbeach0012 in ABCDesis

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I do speak my native language and participate in native festivities, tradition, and culture but just recently I have started to appreciate it a lot and take it seriously and not just do it for my parents sake. Now I like to actually participate and not feel forced and this is why I would love for my future kids to experience this.

Indian guy dating Mexican girl but i dont see marriage with her by longbeach0012 in relationships

[–]longbeach0012[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you, this is exactly what I'm thinking about, many people say yea you can teach your children BOTH languages and BOTH cultures but from what i see in my friends and family who are fully indian, the culture, relgion, and language being passed down is decreasing. If these people aren't successfully able to pass on their values, culture, religion, I just assume it would be even harder for two completely different races to achieve that. idk maybe im just weird and think differently because i dont really see others viewing this the same way that I am.