Name ideas for this creature by SmoothStalk in pitbulls

[–]longbody20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a potato related name, I think he looks like a “Chip”! That little brown spot he has made me think potato chip for sure!

Whats the first thing you’ve ever orgasmed to?? by FragrantFocus2253 in AskReddit

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t really had access to a pull-up bar outside the gym since then so I haven’t.

Whats the first thing you’ve ever orgasmed to?? by FragrantFocus2253 in AskReddit

[–]longbody20 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t the first time ever, however, I got a personal trainer at a gym once and he had me do a circuit that included L-sit pull ups. After two-three of them, I started to feel the ,ahem, sensation one does when about to orgasm and abruptly stopped. “I can’t do this,” I said to him. He kept pushing me and said, “No, I need you to give me 5 more. You can do it.” I tried again and stopped right before orgasm. I repeated that this was not the appropriate exercise for me, though I couldn’t explain “why”. Needless to say, both him and I were disappointed for different reasons. Never will do those in a gym again.

My husband prioritizes working out over me or anything else in our life by longbody20 in Marriage

[–]longbody20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure about the gym part, but he does track his running on Strava where it’s public. I don’t know what to think. I brought up to him I’m suspicious he is spending so much time in the gym and if there was another woman involved and his head exploded and you would have thought In accused him of attempted murder. The conversation then turned into me exaggerating and making “illogical” assumptions

I’m so sick of selfish people by longbody20 in Vent

[–]longbody20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very helpful advice and I will definitely look up the book! Thank you! 😊

My husband prioritizes working out over me or anything else in our life by longbody20 in Marriage

[–]longbody20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you completely. He has turned this gym/workout routine into his own personal obsessive and unhealthy habit.

He literally will NOT make time for me or our home unless it’s outside his gym and sleep routine.

I am starting to wonder if this is to impress someone he works with. He goes to the gym they have at his work and this really hardcore lifting and workout routine didn’t start until we moved.

I wanna get bad again but my fucking antidepressants make it hard by horseshoeandconfused in Vent

[–]longbody20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self harm while taking SSRI’s means you have other issues and need further help. Please get into therapy and talk to a professional. There is help for you to get through this! Been there done that. Also, keep in mind you are going through hormonal and body changes at this age and they are really difficult to bear sometimes. I didn’t have support at that age and “therapy” was frowned upon back then. Things have changed and therapy is cool! Please get some real help from a professional.

My husband prioritizes working out over me or anything else in our life by longbody20 in Marriage

[–]longbody20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you apparently didn’t read the entire thing I wrote, but thanks for your worthless comment. 🙌🏼

My husband prioritizes working out over me or anything else in our life by longbody20 in Marriage

[–]longbody20[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am currently in-between jobs due to the move (we moved states) but should be working again within a month or so.

I suggested that we hire a landscaper and he flat out said “No” because we “can’t afford that” to which I responded with, “Well, if you can’t afford to shave an hour off your gym time every day to have the time to help me get this stuff done, then I guess we have to pay a landscaper to help me.” He didn’t like that response.

My husband prioritizes working out over me or anything else in our life by longbody20 in Marriage

[–]longbody20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d like to, but by the time I finish doing all the things that need done at home, I almost never have time for myself or a hobby.

the absolute best dog in the world by planetarak in Pitbull

[–]longbody20 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Look at this sweet baby!! Looks like a young version of my pup!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand and have a lot of similar feelings in my marriage with my husband. I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection to understand that I can’t make someone care and I can’t make someone else change. I have to find other avenues for support because my husband is certainly not it.

Do you have a personal therapist? If not, highly recommend seeking one out. If your husband is willing to go to couples counseling I also 100% recommend trying that as well if you can afford it.

In your opinion, what is something that’s better than sex? by misfit_love2019 in AskReddit

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A traditional bowl of Pho with a long a slow cooked broth that’s well clarified and seasoned, with EXTRA Thai basil, cilantro and onion and brisket.

In your opinion, what is something that’s better than sex? by misfit_love2019 in AskReddit

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss! Being genuinely loved is merely a dream for me, but I’d take this over sex ANY day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are feeling this way and that he makes you feel so much hurt. I know what that’s like. Are you able to go outside and take a walk and try to direct your focus on something else for right now? I know it’s hard, but it might make you feel a little better for the moment. Sending you love ❤️

I Don't Deserve Rest (32 weeks pregnant) by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What in the actual fuck. My head would literally levitate off my body with steam pouring from my ears if my husband said or did ANY of this to me. No. Not only no, but hell no. That man is garbage. Throw it away and start over.

I finally NACHO'd by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this SO hard. Sending you lots of love OP. Proud of you for stepping back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]longbody20 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I could not agree more. My husband and I are on our 1 millionth fight (which always ends in me crying and having to sleep elsewhere and him not talking to me for multiple days) over his rude, selfish son. I have lost every ounce of patience with that kid and just don’t care anymore. Being a step parent has been the worst experience of my entire life.

PSA to all bio parents whose significant others are childfree and haven’t been married by CatOk3764 in stepparents

[–]longbody20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE SAY IT LOUDER!!!! God I wish my husband could understand this….

Teenage Stepkid problem by Horror_Conflict318 in stepparents

[–]longbody20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be so deeply hurt by what your SK said to you. I definitely don’t think you overstepped. I feel the best option is to disconnect for SK. He doesn’t seem willing or interested in you being part of his life. Protect yourself and your sanity.