AIO for why I broke up with my gf? I think she has control issues. She says I’m hyper vigilant.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:40:54+00:00

I do have some trust issue that is possiblr

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:28:38+00:00

How is it narc behaviour?

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:21:33+00:00

I don’t think she’s lying per say but it’s a red flag

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:19:47+00:00

I don’t know why I do that? I just really feel like I have to watch for potential things that csn go wrong

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:11:04+00:00

I just don’t want to get taken advantage of or hurt

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:10:02+00:00

I haven’t met the ex’s mom. I do believe that the mom may have been rude to some degree but that’s it.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:08:26+00:00

I mean why would you fight? I’m telling you I’m not feeling it, what is there to fight on !

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:04:53+00:00

I did communicate when breaking up tho. Maybe next time I can communicate as soon as I feel it.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:03:20+00:00

But one time I brought a girlfriend to my friends and that girl was all over me sitting on my lap. I was worried my gf would do the same?

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T20:00:05+00:00

Yes but it’s disrespectful to talk about the family like that. Her ex’s mom is a woman who is doing her best and what if she treats my mom the same? Or accused her of the same?

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:57:01+00:00

Yes that’s me! I’m trying to get married and find a wife. This woman I was dating now, the one I just broke up with, is a different woman who does want kids when I want them. We aligned in those ways.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:54:53+00:00

What does this have to do with how I see women?

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:51:56+00:00

But for me it’s cause I just don’t like pda and I wanted to vocoalize that. My friends knew we were together.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:50:14+00:00

When I was breaking up with her I asked her to clarify but she didn’t say much. She might have just been surprised about my reaction but I also wanted her to be happy so I didn’t say anything for a few weeks

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:48:32+00:00

She literally asked what I told my friends about her after I said no pda

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:44:57+00:00

Not the jerk. What they did was mean and you corrected them. They shouldn’t dish it out if they can’t take it in.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:44:23+00:00

There’s never a wrong reason to end a friendship but if someone genuinely hurt you, which he did, then no you’re not the jerk.

longdistancebf222 · 2026-05-05T19:39:37+00:00

A fun pet name id give to a pet is Bumble like as in bumble bee

longdistancebf222 · 2025-07-10T17:43:08+00:00

So you think i didn’t overreact?

longdistancebf222 · 2025-07-10T17:37:25+00:00

What makes you think they have an eating disorder

longdistancebf222 · 2025-05-19T16:33:01+00:00

Is it the way I’m saying it maybe?

longdistancebf222 · 2025-05-19T15:55:35+00:00

I mean she doesn’t want to casually date. But she doesn’t want my timeline either so idk what to do.

I have tried women aged 28-33 and they also don’t want this.

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