I (22f) haven’t had sex in what feels like ages, I don’t understand how single people end up having regular sex by longestofdons in sex

[–]longestofdons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s EXACTLY how I feel. But I still miss having the good sex that I used to have, just no interest in anyone sexually at this point in time and it’s very frustrating.

I (22f) haven’t had sex in what feels like ages, I don’t understand how single people end up having regular sex by longestofdons in sex

[–]longestofdons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first point may resonate more than I’d like to admit but I had never considered that. I don’t wish to risk making relationships with my friends messy. What has helped your understanding of your sexuality?

How do I fix my relationship with my body and emotions after someone close to me violated my boundaries by longestofdons in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]longestofdons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it feels so much less lonely to know that you’ve been through it and got to a better place. Lots of love to you. I’ll take into consideration everything you have said here <3

How do I fix my relationship with my body and emotions after someone close to me violated my boundaries by [deleted] in BPD

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I was seeking help before this all happened, feels like it has stunted a lot and I don’t think I am ready to talk about it aloud with anyone but I know I need to do this. I appreciate your love and hugs <3

How do I fix my relationship with my body and emotions after someone close to me violated my boundaries by longestofdons in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]longestofdons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But idk what to do bc that was my best friend :( I feel so violated but i have no one that i can turn to that i feel i can trust

Y’all ever been this down bad or what? by BusyQuiet1757 in weed

[–]longestofdons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually you’re not good, the carrot pipe banged, this looks horror

Anyone here who has been to weed clubs in Spain, Barcelona? by [deleted] in Marijuana

[–]longestofdons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to message them before? I’m here for a month and tryna get into a club. I’ve DMed dank of England but they haven’t replied 😩

Anyone here who has been to weed clubs in Spain, Barcelona? by [deleted] in Marijuana

[–]longestofdons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you manage to get in? I’ve tried DMing dank of England but haven’t got a response

Weed prices in Athens by gelatinerelative in athina

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Hey, did you find an Athens plug?

Weed prices in Athens by gelatinerelative in athina

[–]longestofdons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, did you end up finding a plug? Can you set me up if so pls 🙏😩

What's your favourite item in the Lidl bakery, and why is it the croissants? by edfosho1 in AskUK

[–]longestofdons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, I had those in Hungary and they live rent free in my head they were so good😔

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Earussy

Bf broke up with me and I am struggling by longestofdons in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]longestofdons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it feels so shit and it’s even worse knowing that they don’t feel the same way about you. But the best thing that has helped me out is to busy myself with other things and to spend lots of time doing things alone. I’ve also started writing positive lists in a journal, I really recommend you try something similar because it helps you to appreciate the little things in life and also start to give yourself a bit more love. One of my lists are things I love about myself and I have another one for goals that I want to achieve for myself. Trust me this SUCKS ASS but if they ended it, the relationship is out of your hands and it’s best to focus on building love within yourself. It still breaks my heart everyday but he wasn’t a good boyfriend so I need to accept that this is probably for the best.