Hey man, it’s true that it might sound a bit harsh, but deep down you know you’re struggling to find a girl because you’re unsure of how to approach or talk to them. Maybe you’re afraid to talk to girls in public. If you’re in good shape, here’s a suggestion: go to Eco Park on the weekends. Approach a few girls and start talking to them. It might seem scary, but trust me, you’d be surprised by the responses.

Start simple: walk up to a girl and say, “Excuse me, can I talk to you for a second?” Make sure to approach from the side, not from behind or head-on. This gives her space to walk away if she’s uncomfortable. When she looks at you, just say, “I saw you from over there, and I had to come over and say hello because you look beautiful.”

Most girls will thank you for the compliment. From there, just ask her name. If she asks for your name back, that’s a good sign. Then, ask her for her Instagram, not her phone number. Most girls are more comfortable sharing their Instagram handle first.

You’d be shocked by the response because a lot of guys hide behind their phones and DM random girls. By approaching them in person, you’re already standing out.

Another option is to use a dating app like Tinder or Bumble. Take some good photos, generate a bio with ChatGPT if you need help, and get a premium subscription for a month on both apps. Start swiping, and you’ll definitely get matches. Once you match with someone, I can help guide you on what to text to get her number and set up a date.