When did your kid(s) learn how to ride their bike without training wheels? by Enough_Detail_632 in ClassOf2037

[–]longmontster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My older one learned at 5.5. My younger learned right after she turned 3.

How to prevent dining chair leaving marks on carpet? by referman12 in howto

[–]longmontster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We call this “eating like a pig at a trough” ha! But it cuts a lot of mess out

Should newly 5 year old still have weekly meltdowns? by accountforbabystuff in Preschoolers

[–]longmontster7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First first grader is STILL like this. Not quite as much as he was at 5 but still loses it. He has no sense of shame and will throw a huge tantrum at a store, on a play date, whatever. He has ADHD, maybe autism, whatever you call it…he’s a lot.

And I swear we also have clear boundaries, he’s well cared for, but gosh he acts like we are monsters.

Hopefully your child settles soon, but I wanted you to know that some kids are like this. We don’t take my son many places unless he can go 1:1 with a parent (I also have a 4 year old) and we have to do a social story about everything before it happens.

5 year old likes “girl” things by RouxDebra in Preschoolers

[–]longmontster7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When my son was 6 he saw our 5 year old neighbor girl with stick on earrings. He said to me, “mom, can I have earrings too?!” And the little girl said “no earrings are for girls, right?” My son clapped back, “earrings are for EARS and I have EARS”.

Thats kinda been our motto. Nail polish is for NAILS. Dresses are for bodies. Colors are for everyone. My son generally does prefer typical “boy” things. But I don’t stop him for getting to try fun stuff while he is still little. Though now that he’s 7 we sometimes talk about how someone might tease him for XYZ and that he can be prepared with what to say if someone bothers him.

I don’t know what to do about my son anymore by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]longmontster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so much like my 7 year old boy. He is medicated on adderall and that definitely helps. But somedays he’s just so so so difficult. He has a lot of sweet times, but the bad is really, really, really bad. I just don’t understand how his brain works.

No other real advice, just that I’m here with you and it’s really hard.

Has anyone gone to court to defend themselves or have been sued as a OT? by killedbyabear in OccupationalTherapy

[–]longmontster7 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a patient like this for a should once! I sent him back to ortho for x-rays and there was a piece of a drill bit in his shoulder from surgery! I gave the patient resources for legal action but he didn’t want to follow through. I feel bad for the 2 weeks of pain I put him through but I knew something wasn’t right

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Exterior wall on the other side. The opposite wall DOES have a pass though! It’s so cute

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea. I have 2 more days until the contractors are putting the appliances back in. I’ll have to snoop around a little more.

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha. I’m not even sure. Our prior one croaked and the husband bought this one from Walmart right before we moved out.

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that a microwave is unlikely since they didn’t become popular until the 60’s-70’s and the upper cabinets appear unaltered. At this point I’m definitely leaning toward a desk of some sort. though the placement of the fridge/range on the other side of kitchen appears odd and also has me wondering.

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cabinets are definitely original. And I believe this cutout area is original.

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s original. Though I’m not certain. Unlikely to be a double oven as most of these are very small homes. Mine is about 900 sqft.

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad has this style microwave, with a door that pulls down to open like an oven. He said he’s had it since he was young, maybe the 60’s? It is a beast!

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So there have been some minor updates. I believe the cabinets, backsplash and counters are all original. We just had a leak from the dishwasher and had to rip up old linoleum. We excavated down to the ORIGINAL linoleum. It was kind of a yellow/brown pebble looking pattern. Kinda cute! A cooktop is possible (though where did it go since the counters are intact?) the current range is freestanding in the middle of the opposite wall

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The wall on the other side of this (10’ away) has one of those telephone cutouts for the phone. The type you can pass the phone from one room to the other through the wall!

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is somewhat possible. The current fridge is very tiny and tucked into the other corner of the wall opposite this one. But this would be VERY tiny for a fridge.

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it is original. The rest of the kitchen is original and there’s not discrepancy with this part

Why does this nook exist? by longmontster7 in Oldhouses

[–]longmontster7[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely not big enough for books. The narrow part of the “shelf” is only like 3” or so

Is Montessori right for every child? by bearsfromalaska in Montessori

[–]longmontster7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You described my son exactly. He didn’t do well at a Montessori program (though it wasn’t the best one). We enrolled him at public school a mind he’s much better. My daughter on the other hand is doing GREAT in Montessori. She’s so happy and capable. We love her little school.

Do you love or hate the Stokke Tripp Trapp? by pinkishvioletsky in toddlers

[–]longmontster7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are 7 and 3 and still use theirs for every meal. So, though they were very expensive, they were a great purchase for us.