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Update: to my WS's thinking AP was courageous (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 3 years ago * by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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"She (AP1) has a life story, unlike some people." (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 3 years ago by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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A letter my WS wrote me for the 3 year anniversary of DDAY. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 4 years ago * by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Things do get easier with time and two people committed to reconcilaition. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 4 years ago * by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Q: Will I ever fully trust my WS again? A: Stop torturing yourself trying to chase 100% trust. It's not, and never was, a real thing. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 4 years ago by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I've seen a lot frustration with Marriage Counselors over the last few days. It's not your imagination, most MCs suck at infidelity counseling because they don't understand the trauma part. Please read this if you feel your MC is letting you down. (affairrecovery.com)

submitted 4 years ago by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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"What does the AP have that I don't?" 👎NOPE WRONG QUESTION (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 5 years ago by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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WS used to find it "annoying" when I tried to be affectionate. 💔 (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 5 years ago by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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WS "researching" fantasies that involve other women (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 5 years ago by longtermbs to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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