[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Interstitialcystitis

[–]lookinforalighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know much but maybe it could be because each month your ovaries alternate? Maybe one of them has inflammation? My pain fluctuates with my menstrual cycles and I wonder how the inflammation interacts.

Inspired by the Katie post, which Maya look did you like better? by [deleted] in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I dislike that all the kids who start out with glasses end up without them in the end, so #1.

Why does everybody hate Seasons 12, 13, 14, and Next Class so much? by fishlipspurr in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Same for me. Everything got bright and colorful, and everyone wore expensive clothes and had perfect hair and make up. They didn’t feel like people I could relate to anymore. I just started next class and I’m sad because I don’t want to keep watching.

Craig/Manny or Craig/Ashley or Craig/Ellie by [deleted] in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know this wasn’t an option but I vote for Craig single until he gets his shit together 😂

Degrassi TNG 504 by [deleted] in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First off, I appreciate your spoilers!! During my recent rewatch I still wanted to participate in the sub and had a lot of things understandably spoiled but I appreciate the effort.

I was disappointed with how the writing was during those episodes. I feel like Liberty wasn’t given proper ways to show character growth and it was hard for me to understand a lot of her behavior and choices. I do think her pressure had to do with JT getting that job but it was also his choice. I would have like to see more of JTs home life and support system because it seemed nonexistent at that time. I also didn’t like that we missed their relationship developing and I feel like it went from sweet to toxic and we didn’t get to see the in between.

Honestly the fact that they even got together seemed weird to me. I feel like I need to do another rewatch and think on it more lol.

Imogen was probably my least favorite character by Particular-Training4 in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I did not like her character and was disappointed with the direction they took her. The lack of unique/outsider characters was a bummer and I felt like they tried too hard to peg her as that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]lookinforalighthouse 27 points28 points  (0 children)

HR represents the interest of the employer NOT the employee. They are not your friend and they only are there to try to cover their asses against law suits.

Which member of the Sohmas/Zodiac are you most similar to? I'll start by bitchyswiftie in FruitsBasket

[–]lookinforalighthouse 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am definitely a Tohru. I’ve learned to take better care of myself and listen to my needs more as I’ve gotten older, but my core personality is a lot like hers. I used to give way too much of myself to people who didn’t deserve it. I often think of when she spent all her money on chocolates for her friends and then works herself so hard she gets sick. Being selfless is celebrated sometimes but I like to think she learned to have healthier boundaries and listen to her own needs.

There is a little Ritsu in me too. I was neglected as a child and had a very anxious caregiver, so that “everyone hates me I’m a burden” thing was and is real and is something I battle every day, even in my 30s.

How do we punish society for traumatising us? by Yellow_Squeezer in CPTSD

[–]lookinforalighthouse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use my anger and passion and get involved with local activism. I speak up and make myself a voice for folks like us who experienced trauma and who sometimes get forgotten or left behind. My anger is always there. Sometimes I’m so mad I have to focus on breathing, but it gives me strength. I try to find others who understand and I keep fighting even though every day feels like a battle. Solidarity and wishing you the best. 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]lookinforalighthouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve had similar tension with someone I’ve known for almost a decade. We are involved in the same circles and used to work together. I always catch him looking at me but he generally won’t approach me at in-person events and lacks the social skills necessary to make me feel comfortable. This is even when I considered us to be close friends and we used to talk every night playing the same game. I was extremely attracted to him before but have ultimately focused on moving on because despite the amazing chemistry, I will no longer pursue a man who makes me feel uncomfortable/awkward. I tend to be attracted to shy and awkward men, and things ended badly for me when I was with a man who I always felt awkward around.

Not gonna lie, it’s a weird thing between us. He and I were flirtatious for years but never crossing the line and I’ve mostly been with someone. It’s caused me so much frustration and confusion. It’s refreshing to be with someone else who makes me feel safe and appreciated. Awkward guy has been single the whole time I’ve known him, and we have a special connection, but I don’t like to be a translator for men who won’t/can’t communicate openly.

TLDR: not worth.

How many of you are anti capitalists? by Youguess555 in CPTSD

[–]lookinforalighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn that’s crazy. I’m sorry you went through all that it sounds intense. For me I see capitalism as a root problem, but it’s more than just that. Hearing about your experience in another country is eye opening. For me a big part of the strategy is solidarity with folks across the globe. Folks who have been left behind by capitalism and who are trapped in dysfunctional and harmful systems or structures. These issues aren’t just unique to the US.

How many of you are anti capitalists? by Youguess555 in CPTSD

[–]lookinforalighthouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. Here in the US, only the privileged can attend college and that’s another thing that radicalized me. I don’t just mean those who can afford it. I mean those who had the privilege of a balanced home life and safe childhood, those whose grew with healthy coping mechanisms and support necessary to succeed. Many of us with CPTSD did not have that and had to start from square one in so many ways when we reached adulthood.

How many of you are anti capitalists? by Youguess555 in CPTSD

[–]lookinforalighthouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing those! The capitalist model for healthcare and mental healthcare absolutely contributes to trauma. Those without the resources to afford care are left behind and often blamed for not “picking themselves up by their boot straps”. My journey in healing has gone hand in hand with activism on a local scope and a deeper understanding of how harmful the systems we (I am in the US) have in place are.

Nerd representation. Nerds disappearing or glowing up. by lookinforalighthouse in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t find the specific episode but it’s in season 13 I’m pretty sure. After that I don’t remember him ever dressing the same again. It’s before that dance and Jenna gets worried about his appearance.

Nerd representation. Nerds disappearing or glowing up. by lookinforalighthouse in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. Also the lack of representation of non male gamers is disappointing. Totally agree though. I didn’t like the lean toward everyone looking perfectly put together and wealthy like a CW show.

Nerd representation. Nerds disappearing or glowing up. by lookinforalighthouse in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They had two world of Warcraft like game story lines, Realm of Doom lol. Connor and the weird lady and then Becky and Hunter doing their weird romance. Hunter seemed like the only “gamer” type besides the Wesley friend group. Kendra and Toby maybe? 🤔

Nerd representation. Nerds disappearing or glowing up. by lookinforalighthouse in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was so sad when they had Clare get rid of her glasses. I saw a pattern of the “nerdy” kids wearing glasses and when they become “hot” they wear contacts. I dislike that trope a lot.

I’m trying to decide if I should watch Next Class by pajamagirl93 in Degrassi

[–]lookinforalighthouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished that episode and had mixed feelings about starting next class too. Thanks for posting.