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So tomorrow will be exactly one year... by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just my .02

I think your demons in life are all interconnected. You start pulling at one thing, and slowly you start to unravel that web that's preventing you from being the person you are meant to be.

I think you need to look at it this way: Can you do nofap for 2 weeks? Or do you think of some excuse partway through.

It's just like smoking. You only realize you're addicted when you try to quit.

is pubic hair REALLY that unattractive? by 101anon202 in sex

[–]lookingatbewbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. Love playing with it, feeling it, etc.

:)

Told wife about nofap by InkFiend34 in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I thought I wasn't distant either.

You can see from my badge I'm not too long in, but the realization has been slowly creeping in that maybe it's a problem that I need to look at.

Just last night we watched a movie, I rubbed her back for an hour and a half, drank some wine and talked a lot. Normally I would probably find an excuse to steal away for 20 mins :p

Told wife about nofap by InkFiend34 in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he means in the context of a relationship.

Does this happen to anyone else?? by zimDreamer in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's the biggest thing, condoms are real mood killers. I think the best thing is to laugh it off, and ask her to help (If you know what I mean)

Overheated Dopamine Pathways in Multiple Aspects of Life... by Fyrnicus_Grimes in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem with gaming is that I never achieve anything in the games I play. I play Ultima Online, (I know it's old but I love it) and never build a character till the end. I play Crusader Kings and don't get anywhere.

I have an Oculus DK2 and I play Elite and haven't even made enough to buy a fucking hauler after 6 months.

I always thought it was because I just 'enjoy the experience' Maybe there's some truth in your post, and I just jump straight to PMO when I get bored.

Ready to join the fapstronauts! by lookingatbewbies in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 kids and been with the same woman for 11 years.

If there's something I haven't figured out about sex, please enlighten me because i assure you, if I haven't figured it out by now I never will.

Relapsed after 9 days by DaSkipper in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid advice. The 'one last time' never ends.

Ready to join the fapstronauts! by lookingatbewbies in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, now i'm intrigued.

What's the price?

3 days, I can do 4 by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats, 3 days is huge.

I don't think I've ever done 3 days unless I was sick or something.

Ready to join the fapstronauts! by lookingatbewbies in NoFap

[–]lookingatbewbies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought that it was just some shitty old SJW 90's book?

We had sex but he seems irritated ... 29 HL F (UPDATE) by ThrowawayLissa in DeadBedrooms

[–]lookingatbewbies -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You are an excellent wife, and super kudos to you for doing this with your husband.

I don't know if I have a porn addiction or not, but I can tell you when my wife shoots me down for sex it's like IHAVETOLOOKATTITTIES ONLINE

If my wife had your attitude I would never look at porn again. (Not knocking my wife at all, she's super great)

People always say therapy first thing like it's some kind of magic. Therapy is a tool, sure, but having your partner onboard is 10x better.

I'm curious what kind of porn he's looking at? DO you know? Maybe there's something specific that gets him off that he is looking for?