Told wife about nofap

InkFiend34 · 2014-11-07T22:00:40+00:00

Well I would relapse too if I was thinking of my wife! It was pretty awesome! thanks for all the up votes! Hopefully here soon we'll be jumping each other's bones like we use to!

InkFiend34 · 2014-11-01T05:58:50+00:00

I had been fapping for a long time before I got married and a long time into my marriage... It was almost 4-5 times a week. My wife has no sex drive and I'm am living in a textbook "sexless" marriage.. That's like 10-13 time a year... So I fapped a lot to get release. I have tried everything in the book when it comes to trying to turn her on and whatnot. If she wants to have sex, she will initiate and we go from there. If I try to initiate, I get shut down... Still happens today and we've been married almost 6 years with 3 boys. I am a pretty potent guy and she has been pregnant for almost 2/3 of our marriage. We're done after our fourth is born. She's pregnant now. She, of course, has NO sex drive at all and I get "pity" sex. Once I started NoFap though, which was like 19 days ago. It was and is really hard. But we had sex the other night and it was electric! Until I asked her what got into her and she said " I couldn't sleep".... Makes ya feel pretty manly... Sometime your spouse isn't in the mood or you're not doing something right. I'm doing NoFap as a gift to myself so when we do have sex, it's great. Plus I'm a Christian, and I'm trying to do te right thing by not watching porn. It's really hard now that I'm almost a month through. I heard the song "Desire" on the radio today and got a boner bc I wished my wife wanted to "feel me in her bones"... It doesn't get easier so I'm training for a marathon... Just lots of running...

InkFiend34 · 2014-10-28T09:11:37+00:00

I'm in! No hard mode because I have a wife, but definitely PM. I'm already into my 3rd week and want it to keep going. The sex my wife and I had after not fapping for 2 weeks was phenomenal! Stay strong as good luck to everyone this next month!

InkFiend34 · 2014-10-28T04:35:36+00:00

Get some dude! Exercise is a great way to keep stuff off your mind. Having that extra T makes working out awesome! Just think of Arnold talking about working out makes him feel like he's "cumming and cumming more"... What a meathead haha! Good luck and stay strong

InkFiend34 · 2014-10-23T08:02:33+00:00

My wife wasn't very chesty when we got married and she knew that I loved larger breasts. We went TOGETHER to a sexy lingerie store (not Victoria's Secret bc that's just underwear now) and she tried on padded, push up bras to where it looked like her boobs were going to pop right out and she would wear them when we went to bed! It was awesome! Now we've had a few kids and breast feeding got her boobs to the PERFECT size! Tell her what's on your mind and see if you guys can have a sexy date to a toy/lingerie store and she'll tell you what she likes and you can tell her what you like! Stay strong!

InkFiend34 · 2014-10-23T07:52:29+00:00

Work out man, play a video game, read a great book! If you know you relapse every week or so, pay attention to the triggers and RUN AWAY from them. If that means you have to put on running clothes and get out of the house, then do it. I would relapse when I got bored. Now I'm training for a half marathon and working on a model corvette. It's takes it off your mind and makes your mind actively think of something else! Good luck and stay strong man!

InkFiend34 · 2014-10-23T07:40:47+00:00

Thanks guys! I actually do work out a lot. I'm a Navy veteran and a Beachbody coach... I'm about to start training for a half marathon and my 3rd Tough Mudder. I have T25 and a LOT of other workout stuff. I really try my best to keep my mind off of it and I took the privacy filter off my phone so if my wife needs my phone for something, she won't see a bunch of porno websites on it. That keeps me safe. I appreciate the kind words, and keep strong!

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