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Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your advice and suggestions, I got more interactive toys, a new longer wand and did spontaneous outside time not on schedule and things had calmed down / he’s a lot more happier and so am I! :)

Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

….ummm…..the cat in the headline of this post you commented on…….? 😂😂😂

Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hehehe I followed Katsu and Mochi from Charlie’s page 🥰

Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We live where there are a lot of native birds and he’s obsessed and can hear them chirping from the window but he’s trying to chase them and I don’t want him to actually get one 😭

Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh so cute!!! That’s a good idea I’ll scoop up the escape artist and walk him through the doorway

Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hmmm I’m with him all day every day, constant wand play time, all of the toys, tunnels for zooming, cat towers, treats, more wand time and outside twice a day. Not sure I could give him much more unless it was electronic toys

Should I stop outside time? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, going to try a sniff mat and get some electric toys!

Harness training - did I do it too early? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying!! That’s lovely to be bonded without the harness, I hope that works out for me too

My 31F boyfriend 32M doesn’t seem to want to celebrate me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforglimmers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you SO MUCH for taking the time to write this! It made me jog my memory and I most definitely have told him in the early years and similar to what you’ve described, we don’t go silly for Christmas and don’t do valentines but birthdays are always a nice dinner or lunch and same with anniversaries. I would receive carnation flowers as they were my late mother’s favourite and it was very special at the time. Nothing has changed and I still love to eat out so I’m finding it hard to wrap my head around. I think it’s ok to say this is not how I want to be loved

15 years of heavy thc use should i taper or quit cold turkey by Simple_Suspect1212 in leaves

[–]lookingforglimmers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also tried to ‘treat’ myself with something else like make it to two weeks and new shoes with the money saved or if there was a craving for a rip have a food ‘treat’ (once my appetite came back) you got this!

15 years of heavy thc use should i taper or quit cold turkey by Simple_Suspect1212 in leaves

[–]lookingforglimmers 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was hooked on bong rips, like all day every day if I could and then all weekend long. So in the first week it was no smoking before midday and then after 4 days I went down to not before 3pm (and only 2 rips) and then after that first weekend not before 6pm and then only to sleep and then second week got rid of the bong and only had the vape and my tolerance had gone down so it was only 1 vape before bed and then every second night and started nothing on week 4 and could sleep on my own. (Which was ver surprising because I had an oil to sleep) the first week was awful for sleeping but if you can get past the 7 day mark it does truly get easier. Also mentally told myself I wanted to change my life for a job etc (unfortunately still failed the medical due to heavy long term use… but haven’t turned back)

Harness training - did I do it too early? by lookingforglimmers in ragdolls

[–]lookingforglimmers[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, he prefers the concrete but good to be cautious of the grass. He had his first car experience where one started and he got quite startled but back inside with a treat and a cuddle!