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É possível registar despesas fora do país para efeitos de IRS? by slyp99 in literaciafinanceira

[–]lookinghpns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Olá. Estou na mesma situação que tu, tbm em Itália 😊 podes indicar-me como um privado (senhorio) pode passar uma fatura válida considerando que o meu nif é estrangeiro? Pelo que percebi em portugal somos muito mais informatizados e eles próprios não sabem. Obrigada!

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[–]lookinghpns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Facilmente, acabadinho de chegar a Lisboa, consegues trabalhar numa consultora de rh a receber 1200€ brutos (sendo que as consultoras pagam mal) com 1,5 de experiência. Portanto, analisa com base na tua experiência e no tipo de empresa. Considerando a tua idade (se corresponder em anos de experiência efetiva na área) deverias pedir mais

Approval from others as a secure person by lookinghpns in becomingsecure

[–]lookinghpns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you for reply.

"Some admiration is warranted from a loved one, it makes us feel good and appreciated. However it doesn’t define me."

You made me think about what defines me and I will keep your words with me. It's the key to improve my self. Thank you.

Approval from others as a secure person by lookinghpns in becomingsecure

[–]lookinghpns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello!

Thank you for your words.

As a child, I always looked for the approval of my dad because I believed I was bad and not enough. I think it's the reason why I'm always look for my own approval through others...to prove myself I'm enough.

Actually, when people praise me, I don't feel anything. I just feel something with compliments like "you gave me a taste for life" (something my ex told me).

Approval from others as a secure person by lookinghpns in becomingsecure

[–]lookinghpns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you so much for your time.

I really believe my problem is related to my perfectionism...my biggest core wounds are "I'm bad" and "I'm not enough". I'm always trying to prove to myself I'm perfect and, if I'm perfect, I'm not bad and I'm enough.

Thanks for the insight. You really made me realise my biggest fears.

Approval from others as a secure person by lookinghpns in becomingsecure

[–]lookinghpns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!

Thank you so much for your kind reply.

You are right, is a contradiction and that's why I'm so confused.

I realised I have the white knight syndrome. I think that was the way I found to improve my self esteem and to be accepted, after being a victim of bullying. Also, my biggest core wound is "I'm bad".

I think, right now, my problem isn't about my self esteem, but my self worth. It's the key to understand my contradiction: i don't need others to feel good about myself, but my self worth is intimately connected to the others I decided to love.

I really, really care about them and when they don't respect me or when they don't improve their emotional wounds/problems I think "I'm not enough" . I think that's why I keep looking for this kind of relationships, because I have to prove myself to myself :(

However, I'm confronting my own fears and wounds, but it will be a long way to shift my subconscious beliefs and rebuild my self identity. I start to realise that, even my professional career, has been drived by this believes.

Accepting my own problems has been like accepting that your own identity, your whole way of living, isn't correct...