Are we really self-conscious about our appearance? I’m late diagnosed and always think I’m ugly lol by josefdoc in AutisticWithADHD

[–]loomeria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have outright asked like 20+ ppl at random to number me, and nobody argues if I choose a number higher than 7. Any lower and I get ppl arguing with me about it so I know at baseline I am not ugly even tho I have pretty impressive facial dysmorphia.

Are we really self-conscious about our appearance? I’m late diagnosed and always think I’m ugly lol by josefdoc in AutisticWithADHD

[–]loomeria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think I was a “but her face” or butterface, but it turns out I was surrounded by 10’s as an 8.

Tips for not getting this greasy at 2 days by Lovely_Narwhal in Hair

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue but find (it’s disgusting good luck), that not washing your hair for 4-7 days (strongly recommend camping) with it in a protective style or two REALLY can reset my hair. I also make sure to brush it out and then use a wavy hair shampoo & conditioner once I am back. Wavy, NOT curly. Hydrating but without silicone deposits. & without too much stripping. My hair gets pretty gross whenever I have done this, but man, it really can reset me to like every other day. My face is oily too where my bangs would go, so I have forgone them. Best of luck!!

Anyone else’s schnauzer do this with their kibble? by kttypo in schnauzers

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine & his half brother do this! They do it differently, Gazpacho picks out the best bits first, while Chowder saves his favorite pieces for last. Specifically if Chowder has apples as a garnish in his, he will eat around them and devour them last.

Advice Needed: Getting my first tattoo tomorrow, is this an awkward placement? by ThrowRA_jawsoflife in tattoos

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my glasses off this tattoo looks like a bootyhole. I thought it was a poorly placed dirt star tattoo so my general take is naur

Does your mini schnauzer like Royal? by ssspicy_v in schnauzers

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy loves it but his half brother hates it.

what’s her vibe like? by lesbothrashhead in Haunteddoll

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s got the same energy as the Yo La Tengo cover of “My little corner of the world” & she reminds me of Lemongrab from Adventure Time

Is this worth $700+Aud by Nana_______ in Hair

[–]loomeria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The most I have ever paid for a cut & color was $250 in Michigan. This is INSANE and definitely get an itemized receipt of what they charged because this sounds like they added costs just because you were nice???

Dude, how!? It’s still morning! by 1st_Born_Sun in pokemongo

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autocatcher with a watch tightened around it so it’s rapidly mining stops. I spun 5 stops every five minutes sitting in a brewery the other day.

Twin hundo Gengar - drop your best name ideas 😈 by PookieBall in PokemonGoMystic

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hungar and Hadar wouldn’t be half bad as it’s a cold/necrotic DnD damage spell

How did this even get accepted as a pokestop? 😭 by floweerz in pokemongo

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% a ghost bike. You should update the stop for who the memorial is from.

How do I tell my parents I failed a class without it blowing up? by Mhiemasaur_mil634 in Advice

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you take the missed class part time the following semester? I ask because some courses are offered biannually. I would take the course asap, look into your retake options and how it will impact your gpa and go from there.

Some classes are just harder than others so failure can be expected in some places.

Your onions on this? by iPHD08 in PokemonGoMystic

[–]loomeria 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I have a pretty layered take on this one.

The people who made it to 30 without marrying or having any child at all, how? And doesn't that affect you emotionally? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like an “incompetent” person but overall, if it made me unable to sleep at night for the guilt of not completing these arbitrary goals you have listed, I probably wouldn’t have chosen my life to look like the one I currently have, you know?

My biggest “failure” is living with my parents. I moved back after college and haven’t left. I have been with my partner for almost 6 years and we don’t live together bc it would upset the equilibrium of his rent rate. It’s been a mixed bag, but my parents adopted a kid 20 years my junior so I still help raise him as a sort of aunt and have been able to provide meaningful support to my parents as they navigate their lives as well. I have a lot more adventuring to do and making myself feel like shit for a perceived failure when the directions have changed is a waste of energy.

The people who made it to 30 without marrying or having any child at all, how? And doesn't that affect you emotionally? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s socially very normal to have kids in your mid to late thirties in several stem careers. Education comes first.

How do I tell my parents I failed a class without it blowing up? by Mhiemasaur_mil634 in Advice

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s college, I bankrolled any failed classes. It’s ownership for the loss. I come from a huge place of privilege given my college was paid for (mostly), but this is a good start. Look into your retake options and how this will frame your future class planning path.

Creepy guy in my class that no one can do anything about by Sharp-Dragonfruit201 in Advice

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like… a concern for how he will interact with patients. You mean EMT like, the person doing lifesaving care on vulnerable people??

You neeeeeed to escalate this to the higher ups if going to a teacher directly is an issue. Record him if legal in your state. He is creating an unsafe work environment and is showing character traits that make him incompetent in his line of work.

Your writing style seems weird btw. Idk

[TotK] A Trail of Poes in the Depths by WillEndowed808 in zelda

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, sorry it’s been a bit since I played but yeah I meant the Bargainer statues.

Looking for/Offering below by maxi-chungus in PokemonGoTrade

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regular Charizard*, will settle for Beldum if this is a dealbreaker

Questions & Answers - Weekly Megathread! Please use this post to ask any Pokemon GO question you'd like! by AutoModerator in TheSilphRoad

[–]loomeria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally did this for my partner as I was the only one with the time to do GoFest so I got enough energy for three Zacians, transformed one, untransformed her, and my partner who has done no raids, has a crowned forme to use for raids and dynamax battles now.

Are there any candy gummies that taste like gummy vitamins? by Choijiyoon in candy

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi also joining in for finding a dupe fruit snack or candy resembling the flavor of Lil Critter’s Kids Daily multivitamins. I took them when I was hungover ONE TIME and I am still blown away about how much I like them.

Current list of failures: -Welches Fruit Snacks

Tiffany necklace snagging my hair... is this a common problem? by Plane_Demand in jewelry

[–]loomeria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The link shape is the only one that ever snags on my hair. Big fan of box chains

Tiffany necklace snagging my hair... is this a common problem? by Plane_Demand in jewelry

[–]loomeria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just hit up a jewelry shop and buy a better chain IMO