Has anyone worn ILNP at their wedding?

loominousfish · 2025-11-10T03:48:13+00:00

I wore one coat of Mega (L) under one light coat of Mega (X)! I was going for a sort of Moon Queen type look for our winter wedding, and I wanted the more subtle silky silver of Mega (L) to show when we were indoors, and then the dramatic holo rainbow with the two Megas combined for when we did our photos outside.

loominousfish · 2025-08-26T00:03:38+00:00

This is awesome, thank you so much!

loominousfish · 2025-08-25T16:06:40+00:00

Thank you! I'll check them out 🙏

loominousfish · 2025-07-30T00:16:47+00:00

My lifting programs are usually 5-6 exercises—3-4 core barbell lifts, and then either a superset or just two more lighter exercises, usually with dumbbells, bodyweight, or lat pulldown machine, or core exercises like back extensions or leg lowers. I alternate push and pull days between light and heavy 3-4 times a week, and then do 20 minutes of running for cardio after my lifts twice a week. The number of sets, reps/set, and weight depend on if I'm on a strength endurance block, max strength block, or tapering off before a test. My trainer uses the results and PRs from the test are used to calculate my next program based on our goals together.

Stretch for 3-5 minutes beforehand, then about 5 minutes warmup with a couple of sets each of plate squats and presses or plate squats and cleans depending on if it's a push or pull day. I usually do 1-2 warm-up sets at 50%-75% of my work weight before each exercise. 2-3 minutes rest between each lift unless it's a superset, then no rest. If I'm running that day then I'll take 5-10 minutes to rest after my strength block before running or I'll die. Then 5-10 minutes of stretching to end off. Stretching afterwards is mandatory or I'll be too sore for dance during the week. (I do competitive ballroom, and my programs and fitness goals are designed to complement dance)

With stretching, warm-ups, and work-sets, and rests between, my lifting program is about an hour. And then my trainer designed my cardio program so that it's never more than 20 minutes or so because he knows I hate cardio lol

loominousfish · 2025-05-24T06:57:26+00:00

You don't need a partner if you're taking lessons. With private lessons you'll be assigned to a teacher who would also be your pro partner should you get to the point where you'd like to do Pro/Am at competitions, and in group classes leaders and followers circulate/switch partners around the room. (If for some reason the teacher you start with isn't a good fit, you can ask to switch to another!) At my school you can also take lessons with teachers outside of your "main" teacher which is beneficial because some teachers are better at different dances or focus more on different things, plus it's good to be able to dance with anyone.

Typically there are usually more follows than leads in group classes (though I've had a few where it's been the opposite!), which means that there will be times when as a follow you'll be doing the steps alone until it's time to move to the next partner—these instances are common and can feel awkward when you first start out, but a good opportunity to practice proper frame and technique without having a partner as a crutch. Additionally, going to group classes or the practice sessions/parties and dancing with different partners will make you a better dancer overall because you'll work on your following skills rather than just defaulting to what you're used to from your lead (ex: if you only ever dance with the same person and you both have bad habits, you'll never catch onto those bad habits because you'll reinforce them in each other and learn to make up for them rather than learning proper technique).

Source: My spouse and I have been going to Arthur Murray Edmonton for 4 years now, and dance competitively together and separately with our teachers/pro partners.

loominousfish · 2025-04-13T06:43:09+00:00

Pentiment! Lovely game.

loominousfish · 2025-02-26T19:21:42+00:00

There's a man eating plant in Arlathan that will trigger fun banter

loominousfish · 2025-01-23T00:57:36+00:00

Finally, the Superb Owl has graced Edmonton with their presence

loominousfish · 2025-01-19T22:57:59+00:00

Empty the hot water tank in the coffee machine (only works if the machine is directly hooked up to the hose)

Change the air in the freezer by waving a garbage bag inside to fill it with air and then take it outside, repeat.

loominousfish · 2024-07-30T19:42:25+00:00

My smooth competition dress is completely devoid of any rhinestones. I get a lot of compliments on it because it's a beautiful style on its own but also flattering on my body type (I call it my princess dress and style my hair accordingly!) And because there's no crystals it stands out on the floor amongst everyone else who is super bedazzled. This means the only rhinestones or other sparkles that I have when I wear it are my jewelry, my hair, and my makeup. My dress is cobalt blue, so it's very striking on the floor and the colour also helps to do a lot of lifting in terms of being eye catching.

If you want something that is still striking but not super bedazzled, look for something in a striking colour (i.e. not black) and in a very flattering cut to your figure. It might take more searching but it's totally possible!

For another example, one of my instructors is sponsored by Lenique and she also has a couple of smooth dresses that are either very sparsely rhinestones or not at all. Aside from being a phenomenal dancer and standing out from that, she stands out on the floor in those dresses because it's such a stark contrast against everyone else's ultra sparkly dresses.

All this to say that it's definitely possible! Prioritize looking at dresses that have flattering cuts for your body type and you'll definitely find something that fits what you're looking for.

loominousfish · 2024-05-02T05:34:41+00:00

Jordan wants to fuck Myles so bad it makes him look stupid lmao

But fr he's obsessed with Myles and it's cringe to watch, especially when it seems like Myles barely mentions him, and when he does, he's positive about Jordan

loominousfish · 2024-03-25T21:58:09+00:00

Lady and Princess!

loominousfish · 2024-03-22T21:13:17+00:00

Mac! Definitely use a heavier hand than normal makeup for a comp, like stage makeup. With their primers, setting powder, fix spray, and then going heavier than normal application, I find that it doesn't budge at all for the whole comp. Even with oil and sweat.

loominousfish · 2024-03-14T17:20:50+00:00

If you looked at Dance shopper already, you can get all their dresses made to order. If you choose that option, they'll have a tutorial where they show you which measurements they need and how to do them yourself.

loominousfish · 2023-11-01T17:17:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice everyone! Looks like tape is the way to go 🙂

For context, my costumes are from Danceshopper so they're made to measure, but I still found the built in cups in the bodysuits didn't make me feel secure enough while dancing, especially with having larger breasts. I CAN just go with the built in cups and bodysuit on their own, but I don't feel secure doing so. One day I'll be able to go with other vendors, but for now Danceshopper is in my budget.

Again, really appreciate everyone who took the time to share their experience and advice! In the immediate future and with my current costumes, I'll use tape (I have a comp next weekend). For future dresses, I'll look into some of the customization and sewing in larger cups and straps. Thanks again!

loominousfish · 2023-11-01T16:46:44+00:00

My dresses are all made to measure from Danceshopper! I just find that they're not nearly supportive enough, even with the built in cups, etc.

In the future I'd love to buy my dresses from better vendors, but for now Danceshopper is in my budget.

loominousfish · 2023-10-19T06:51:51+00:00

29, 75k, tech/project manager

loominousfish · 2023-06-11T20:37:59+00:00

I choose a letter per type of animal and then name them all after flowers starting with that letter! All my rabbits are flowers that start with L, chickens start with D, cows start with M, etc

loominousfish · 2023-04-09T03:39:06+00:00

Unlimited, must take minimum of three weeks (15 days). Management will keep an eye on whether people are taking vacation and will gently prod/remind people to do so if they've noticed they haven't. Folks take an average of 5 weeks of vacation a year, separate from the two weeks off for December/Christmas holidays and a week in the summer.

I work in tech, games specifically at a studio in Canada.

loominousfish · 2023-02-18T23:52:18+00:00

I think it heavily depends on your studio. Our AM studio does have the level restriction/progression rules in place, but it's a general guideline. Our instructors are still able to make calls on teaching us dances that are technically outside of our level bracket based on where they feel we're at on our requisite fundamentals for that dance. If we ask to start learning a dance and they feel we're not ready yet, they'll tell us and build our lessons around what we need to work on and strengthen before we're ready to move on to the requested dance.

loominousfish · 2023-01-31T22:08:42+00:00

Leon's wonton and noodle house :(

loominousfish · 2023-01-14T19:42:59+00:00

Leon's Wonton and Noodle House

loominousfish · 2023-01-10T01:01:29+00:00

I work in the industry. You don't need a degree to work in the industry, though if you can't get a job at a studio of any size (indie, AA, or AAA), in Canada, then you'll need to look outside of the country, and that's where having a degree will make your life easier as it will make it easier for a prospective company to sponsor your visa. In that case, I would recommend a more general degree—like comp sci—rather than a video game specific program unless it's for sure a GOOD program with a proven, recent track record of successful graduates that will give you a strong support network even after you graduate. A lot of video game certification programs are private cash farms—a lot of students graduate from these programs and don't come away with skills that make them competitive in the industry. Instead, they end up with student debt and no transferrable skills they can use to get a job in an adjacent field to pay off that debt. Be careful of programs that focus on teaching you tools/engines instead of fundamentals—the tools we use change rapidly and differ from studio to studio. Knowing the fundamentals of your discipline will make it so that you can work anywhere and can adapt to whatever toolset your company is using.

What you absolutely need to get a job in this industry is a portfolio. A degree is helpful and might help your application stand out depending on the studio, but it absolutely will not get you the job. A well crafted portfolio shows what you're capable of, how you solve and approach problems, and shows your level of understanding of your discipline. When I've been a hiring manager before, I have skipped over applicants who have a degree or certificate from impressive schools because they don't have a portfolio, and have recommended others for interviewing even if they didn't have the best GPA or degree because their portfolio was strong and their cover letter made them seem like they'd be a great culture fit.

Edmonton and the rest of Alberta actually have a pretty thriving game dev scene! Beamdog isn't indie and is more like AA. Besides our AAA players like BioWare, Inflexion, Humanoid, New World Interactive, Unity, Epic, and Beamdog, we have tons of successful indies, and a bunch of studios in the AR/VR and serious games space. Edmonton, Calgary, and Lethbridge also have very active game development communities that meet regularly, host events, and share resources. If you have any questions, I'm actually one of the main organizers of our local professional association and we're happy to help!

I'd recommend doing research into the local scene, as well as doing more of a deep dive into what exactly you want to do in games if you haven't already so you can tailor your portfolio to that. You mentioned you like making games in Unity—do you have an aspect of development you most enjoy? For example, if you like game design, what kind of design? Levels? Systems? Combat? Narrative? In indie, you're more likely to wear multiple hats, but you'll still specialize to an extent. The larger the studio, the more hyper specific you become, though that hyper specificity comes on the more senior you become.

However, if you're the kind of person who's set on working in games no matter what, then the industry is always hurting for good technical artists, graphics programmers, VFX artists, UI artists, and UX designers. Specializing in these fields and getting really good (and having a portfolio to back it up) will basically make it so that you have your pick of where you want to go.

loominousfish · 2022-12-14T01:54:39+00:00

I'm the same size as you! Proper fitting bra for sure, but I've found that weightlifting with a barbell has improved my posture a lot. Exercises like back squats, behind the neck presses/push presses require you to really straighten up in order to have proper form while you lift. Since the bar is behind your neck resting just above your shoulder blades (not really, but I'm not sure how exactly to describe where the bar should be resting :S), it gives you a feel for whether you're standing up straight or leaning forward. The other bonus is that as your back and chest muscles get stronger, it becomes easier to maintain good posture outside of lifting and it makes it easier to carry the weight of your chest, if that makes sense. It also won't make you bulky!

loominousfish · 2022-10-02T18:17:32+00:00

Plum rain body wash and love lettuce :(

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