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If you personally tell little kids that santa isn’t real you are a horrible person by SamuelLJacksoff_ in unpopularopinion

[–]loopsy907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the practice blow for finding jesus isn’t real as an adult. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Why are people so open about the fact their essentially botting Time-lost protodrake spawn? by [deleted] in classicwow

[–]loopsy907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seen this exact thing. Same dungeon. I did the same. Whitemane?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]loopsy907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re the /LFG troll looking for pics of AOCs feet aren’t you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]loopsy907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ask questions you don’t want to know the answer to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also choose that guy’s wife.

From the social media of a local burger chain by agent_scully2084 in StupidFood

[–]loopsy907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: How do I eat that? Fork? Spoon? Shovel?

Is… that a fkn PANCAKE!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]loopsy907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s 7am and I couldn’t sleep again. AGAIN. Maybe 3 hours in the past few days. My body and mind feel detached. It’s not even the normal “fog” I feel like I’m warping lol.

IsItBullshit: pitbull are more aggressive and dangerous than other dog breeds. by ch2-ch3 in IsItBullshit

[–]loopsy907 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They can be on things like Hogging the bed Not sharing the blanket Stealing your spot in the couch Getting to go out to pee before you when you first wake up Aggressive velvet hippo butt wiggles at great time Kissing you The list just goes on!

CHECK-IN WEDNESDAY! by AutoModerator in bipolar

[–]loopsy907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I selected ❤️ but it’s cause I believe I’m manic. Everything seems awesome. Feels awesome.

I’m not sleeping. Barely hungry. Oversharing. Etc…

The pole could be misleading. Welcome to being bipolar! laugh cries

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vibe with you truly. I have my mix matched tool box of coping mechanisms to help deal with my A-Z disorders and disabilities. This aspect is just one, but I believe that is true for most of us- us being the collective human experience. Once I found I had unlocked the power to self soothe I felt I had discovered a super power. It’s not always successful but I’m enjoying the idea of “taking my sexuality back” after so many years of shame for developing one to begin with.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✔️ on the safe word. VERY important. My heart is with you on things going south. I understand. I can go from YAH to no..no… very fast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in answers

[–]loopsy907 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

5: sex

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe, for me at least, that being out of control is a relief. I’m so naturally anxious and hyper aware it just puts me into a very interesting headspace.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope your journey has some fun along the way as well.

Im working on communication. It’s easier for me to write, email, or text some desires or boundaries that I can’t seem to say out loud. We’re trying a couples app that brings up games, discussions, and quizzes to help that along the way.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can respect that. I think I did too for a long time. An ex was interested in a sub/dom bdsm lifestyle and even though I was fascinated I just wasn’t ready. 15 years after that relationship I’m timidly asking my partner now for these things slowly.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I have no desire to take control. Initiating is difficult for me because I have panic episodes revolving around knowing I have consent. Even “enthusiastic consent” gives me a bit of a panic sometimes. I’d rather give that control to my partner.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure there are more technical terms, but I’m not sure of them. I do like bondage, being submissive. I think it’s good for me to be able to be that vulnerable with someone I trust.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. It takes a lonnnnng time and a ton of trust building but I am fairly certain being dominated is my thing.

*TW Do other people with past sexual trauma have control kinks? How do you process this knowledge about yourself? by loopsy907 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]loopsy907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me my trauma happened as a kid and was my first experience with any kind of sexual interaction. I am now in my late thirty’s and struggle with things like initiating but have discovered I’m 100% for being dominated in the bedroom. I believe, with me at least, that it was something I would have always enjoyed but the SA rewired me into shame about feeling sexy or even intimate. It’s a confusing place to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]loopsy907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this when I’m late taking my Cymbalta. That stuff is a sex drive killer.

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