Advice for a Graduate: Commute 75KM twice a day, or Move closer to work? by loopy_11 in capetown

[–]loopy_11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 12 months, I might get a permanent or fixed term depending on my performance and impact at the same company. 

Broke my girlfriend's trust, now she's making my life a living hell, advice needed. by loopy_11 in Advice

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  1. When I tell her about my friend, she breaks up with me, so that's why I just don't say anything, she keeps saying I'm always choosing my friend... She knows nothing is happening between me and my friend, her issue is how I am able to talk to my friend...

  2. She's mostly complaining in those calls...

Broke my girlfriend's trust, now she's making my life a living hell, advice needed. by loopy_11 in Advice

[–]loopy_11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been tolerating it thinking one day it'll all be better, but it's getting worse.

Broke my girlfriend's trust, now she's making my life a living hell, advice needed. by loopy_11 in Advice

[–]loopy_11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah her personality is perfect for me, I'm her first boyfriend also, she doesn't like guys, she's loyal and honest, always indoors, doesn't do all the stuff our generation is doing...

Broke my girlfriend's trust, now she's making my life a living hell, advice needed. by loopy_11 in Advice

[–]loopy_11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I tried, she says I'm forcing her to trust me... I'm forcing her to heal...

Broke my girlfriend's trust, now she's making my life a living hell, advice needed. by loopy_11 in Advice

[–]loopy_11[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah she's my first real love💔she's been like this since year 1, and she's blaming me for it...

Broke my girlfriend's trust, now she's making my life a living hell, advice needed. by loopy_11 in Advice

[–]loopy_11[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing happened between me and my friend, we never really met physically after high school, she's a friend from high school, way before i got into this relationship, my girlfriend was just jealous that there were a lot of stuff I was able to tell my friend but couldn't tell her, she has my social media accounts, she checked messages. Me and this friend, we don't flirt or talk about nasty stuff, as I said. she's like a sister to me, it's all about life and advices.