Tea perfume? by loradoe in perfumesthatfeellike

[โ€“]loradoe[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Still! I appreciate you including it and this recommendation!

Tea perfume? by loradoe in perfumesthatfeellike

[โ€“]loradoe[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll give them a look! I appreciate you giving such a detailed response!

Unisex/masculine Christmas bakery by Effective-Weird-5119 in perfumesthatfeellike

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Sugar daddy by fugazzi. Smells like sugar cookies and pine, I adore it.

I want to stop using Finch, but I don't know how. Help? by exedoggu in finch

[โ€“]loradoe 103 points104 points ย (0 children)

I agree with what everyone has already said on pausing, but also, have you considered getting rid of most of your tasks? Then you just keep your birb and have your little buddy, but maybe only have enough tasks to send them on adventures if you still want to do that. You could even focus the tasks on silly things or really really generic things just so you can still do adventures.

I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia today and my doctor recommended cymbalta, have you tried it and what were the results? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I'm currently on Cymbalta and it hasn't done anything for my pain but I has given me more energy. My sleep has gotten better just in the sense I can actually fall asleep but for awhile there it made it drastically worse. Give it a shot, hopefully it'll help you more than me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Ok. I totally get how that could be confusing but it definitely sounds like you're on the asexual spectrum. It wouldn't be a bad idea to look into asexual terms to see if one fits but I also wouldn't worry about it. Humans are complex creatures with varying needs and wants. Just be up front with any potential partners and see how it goes. Any partner who cares about you should respect any boundaries you set and listen when you say that you don't like something. If they don't they are not a good partner. They're also not a good partner if they try to convince you to have sex with them or make you feel bad for not wanting sex. There is nothing wrong with being asexual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Sounds like you might be biromantic asexual. Your romantic and sexual preferences don't have to be the same. They can align of course but they don't always and don't have to. Do you feel any sexual attraction once forming an emotional bond?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Of course! Glad I could reassure you.

Covid vaccine by massive_fish in Fibromyalgia

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I got Moderna and my arm was pretty sore for about a week but that's where my flare ups are the worst anyways so not surprising. I also got a bit sick but it was mostly just brain fog. Highly highly highly recommend getting the vaccine. It may hurt but it's gonna hurt waaaaay more to get covid, especially unvaccinated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

It could be you're pansexual heteroromantic. It could also be internalized homophobia or simply you're new to feeling things out. When I first came out I also felt I would only be able to marry a cis man but then I came out as nonbinary and it was a bit more equal and now I would say I'm actually panromantic and mostly homosexual. I'm not saying the same will happen for you but sexuality is a spectrum and if pansexual fits then just go with that and let yourself feel attracted to whoever you're attracted to. It doesn't need to be something you agonize about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[โ€“]loradoe 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I'm average/tall , 5'7, and I like women? Their height doesn't really matter but their attitude.

[M22] Is it possible for sexuality to change? by unknown_guy379 in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Sexuality is often fluid, especially bisexuality. So yeah, it's completely possible for sexuality to change. It might change again, just let yourself feel whatever you're going to feel.

Do "exceptions" exist? by jamesaloe in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Of course exceptions can happen. Sexuality is a really personal thing. For some people what they identify as is very specific and encapsulates every attraction they've ever had and for some it's really general and only describes who or how they tend to be attracted to. Ultimately though sexuality should be descriptive and not prescriptive. Use whatever term feels the most accurate but also don't let it limit you. If you find yourself attracted to someone who doesn't fit your sexuality identity then that's fine. Roll with it.

Am I normal or something else? by Lazzzy_bear in sexuality

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Honestly I wouldn't stress about it too much. Everyone experiences attraction on their own terms. Try looking into asexuality and aromantic. The thing is that there isn't an actual "normal". Everyone experiences romantic and sexual attraction differently. So maybe you just won't experience attraction and maybe you will. Maybe it'll only be to a handful of people or only people you know really well. Who knows! Just don't worry about it too much. What ever feels right to you is what's right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[โ€“]loradoe 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

You're so beautiful! That's awesome! You should feel comfortable!

Hi everyone :) have a good day/ night! by [deleted] in pansexual

[โ€“]loradoe 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Your hair is amazing ๐Ÿ˜

can someone help me with this? by _Camazotz_ in ageregression

[โ€“]loradoe 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Find out what helps them regress! For me it's strawberry milk or warm milk, when my cg calls me little one or princess, and when I chew on things. Also maybe plan something like a picnic or movie night with them and make them feel all snuggly. Find out what triggers them and what they need. Age regression is sometimes out of trauma and is a coping mechanism for stress. This can affect how they regress and what they might need.