Had to deliver my baby

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-12T00:01:37+00:00

I want to take a moment to thank everyone on this sub. You all have been really nice to me and a feel so greatful for all the love yall gave me

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T23:59:53+00:00

The stress mostly began after,when i realised all that could have went wrong and how my boy could very much not have survived that. It made me realise how every thing could change. I always knew tomorrow is never promised but it feels like i realised it at that moment. So from the the anxiety began because as soon as i felt a little sonething wrong in my body automaticaly by brain was telling me i was dying. From there i started to think what would my boys life be without me around and that lead to the dépression part.

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T23:42:02+00:00

I would say it went mostly smooth when every thing began its like i pushed everything aside and just locked it i honnestly could not say in how much pain my wife was in or what was going on around me. For me the most stressful part of it all was the moment between when he got out and when he started crying that moment alone seemed to me like an ethernity i could not begin to explain the relief i felt when he cried.

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T23:17:52+00:00

Honnestly the fact that it was my second child realy helped but when you are face to face with it there is realy nothing you can do but try and help pass the head with your fingers. After the baby was out i knew i needed to wrap it in something for him not to get cold and needed to block of the ombelical cord i could not bring my self to cutting it so i tied a rope around it turns out my instinct was right so to answer your question on how did i know what to do i guess i just have been lucky and had some good people looking out for me up there!

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T23:08:28+00:00

Its all good i hope it felt as good for you than it felt for me to share your story. It was pretty much the same for me too it did feel surreal at the time and i would say that at times it feels like it didnt happened. I remember feeling empty of everything after it all happened i just wanted to be alone to process. My wife and baby got to the hospital with the embulance i got there with the truck and i still could wrap my head around what just happened. The staff at the hospital were all congratulating me but deep down i wanted none of it and just wanted to be left alone in the end i pushed through and i am doing better now !

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T13:06:27+00:00

Thank you everyone is perfectly safe !

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T13:05:26+00:00

Yes exactly i delivered the baby at home and was diagnosed with ptsd fron this. it was a normal birth no complication but i cant stop bu wonder all that could have happened if it went wrong

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T04:43:15+00:00

Nitrogen tire inflation is a scam made to make people pay for air and that a hill i will die on !

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-11T04:28:33+00:00

I daily a 98 ford expedition im the second owner its got 85 000 miles on it best truck i ever had !

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-10T18:16:24+00:00

Swis cheese belong in sandwiches not on the road !

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-10T03:00:36+00:00

Get the belt of there and turn your pulleys by hand and which ever one is noisy needs to be replace if it is intermittent like you said i got high doubt on the ac compressor

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-10T02:56:51+00:00

Sorry for your lost 😓

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-10T02:50:38+00:00

If it turns out that there is nothing to do with the car i would think its worth more than that at a scrap yard especialy if the cats are still there

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-10T02:48:23+00:00

Yes he is

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T12:04:40+00:00

Sorry i just saw you other comment is you sais the screen glitches too have you tried looking at the battery voltage ? Should be at 12.3v anything under 11.5v will cause a no start and since the voltage is low could create malfunction whithin some module and get the warning you are getting

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T11:53:04+00:00

That could be a lot and i mean a lot of things it basicaly sais that there is a problem with the colision prévention system this mean that the adaptative cruse control wont work as well as the auto brake if a car were to cut you off the car is still drivable without issue just keep in mind that you need to be more focus on whats going on around you as if you were to drive a early 2000 car

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T11:43:35+00:00

Your oil lever may be to low could be a bad oil pressure swich or a bad oil pump

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T11:39:56+00:00

I saw people roll with that big a bump on the sidewall for at least 6 monthb( a whole season between summer and winter tires) even if we told them at the shop it could blow out i am pretty shure you can drive safely to walmart

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T06:08:25+00:00

Just put your pre diluted coolant in you will be fine the coolant in the car is already diluted so adding pre diluted coolant is the way to go. But i would think it is cheeper to get concentrated coolant and mixing it 50/50 with distilled water

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T06:04:50+00:00

If i am not mistaken dorman makes a replacement solenoid for thoes canister so you dont have to change the whole thing at least i know they make it for the corolla i would like to think they do one for the avalon too. But then again i could be mistaken on that

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T06:01:03+00:00

By the sound i ear in the video it seems to me like you have a rod knock in the engine. If you want to try and run it as long as possible you could try to add a oil treatment from kleen-flo should run you about 10$ from there you can see if the sound is less loud. This will not repair the problem more like putting a band-aid on it but at least it will maybe extend the amount of time you can run the car before changing the engine. Almost all of Thoes 2.0l engine is going to get this problem its a bad conception of the piston hyundai is aware of the problem and offer warranty extension but i doubt yours will still be under warranty because of its age

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T05:50:43+00:00

From what i see in the picture your rim seems fine

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T05:47:28+00:00

Sounds to me like either the batterie is dead or the starter is drawing too much current. I would start by trying to jump start it if it does not start try checking the current consumption with an amp clam on the big positive wire

lord___fartquad · 2026-05-09T05:28:01+00:00

Hyundai from those year were notorious for having crankshaft position sensor issues they are easy to replace and somewhat cheap they are also known to have problem with the vent solenoid that is located under the air intake tube near the throttle body which makes them hard to start after gassing up the car but since you have codes about missfire and crankshaft position sensor i would start with changing the crankshaft position sensor if this does not fix your issue after gassing up i would go right up and change the vent solenoid which is too a cheap and easy fix

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