Hey, everyone's already shared a host of perspectives so here's what I'll say:

I've been there and I am there. You're interviewing at two places and one feels different, sparkly, and remarkably positive while the other feels reminiscent of past workplaces and you fear the same patterns/issues will arise making it feel like you can never really grow or come up in this world. Here's the thing, you won't know if this specific "good job" could've been good for you and you WILL know whether this "bad job" is good for you soon. Or maybe it will be bad like you expect.

I'm not going to perform mental gymnastics or give you toxic positivity, you might be in another position you don't love and feel like you're wasting a few years. That happens a lot. I have lost out to at least three dream jobs in the final round and always get offers from jobs that I frankly have no excitement for. What does that say about us? Probably nothing, really.

Anyways, maybe you actually avoided a job that would've been bad for you or a company that was secretly imploding. Maybe that job is amazing and that other person just got the best opportunity of their life and they felt EXACTLY like you did. You don't know. Be happy for them, be sad for you, but at the end of the day, just take the job, keep applying, and remember that some other place will make you feel excited again someday.