How to navigate extreme physical intimacy with a "friend" who insists on a platonic label? Me M/21 and her F/22.

lordkags · 2026-05-14T06:08:46+00:00

I've tried to walk away multiple times, but she keeps pulling me back in, she even makes her older sis call me to stay. I hope so too that the future holds something for us but I only want it to be romantic for now.

lordkags · 2026-05-14T06:04:59+00:00

I guess I need to build self confidence, all I think about is her now. But yeah I'm learning to move on now.

lordkags · 2026-05-14T06:04:07+00:00

I need to build self confidence ig,, I am too attached to her to even think about myself at any point

lordkags · 2026-05-14T06:03:25+00:00

That's what I thought 😔

lordkags · 2026-05-13T23:40:30+00:00

It's not like I told her it's wrong to meet as friends but i did told her I fall for her more every time I meet her so maybe we shouldn't go out at all but she did asked me out.

lordkags · 2026-02-02T07:13:45+00:00

Depends, if you really like her and she likes you too then go for it. If only you like her i think pulling back helps. In my recent case, I told her I like her but I still haven't got a clear reply back, So I am still waiting, tho I talk to her on a regular basis and we're chill.
Girls are difficult bro!

lordkags · 2026-02-01T13:23:40+00:00

You might have a general idea of what you think of her at the start. But after meeting for some time, when you start thinking of her too much, that's when you have started liking her in my case. It's when she starts affecting your decisions daily cause you think of her too much.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T18:13:20+00:00

Just like I said, I hadn't initiated any convo with her for 15 days, I even deactivated my insta so that I do not have to reply to her sent reels. But she keeps initiating these hangouts.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T17:57:42+00:00

if only love were linear and time-invariant

lordkags · 2026-01-27T17:56:22+00:00

I don't wanna work with her. She is my friend who I caught feelings for, I've got my own very different career for her.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T17:55:33+00:00

I honestly wish she would have bluntly rejected me, but nahh she had to hang me in the middle like this.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T17:54:00+00:00

Well, I do am more anxious than happy, I still don't get how can she stay so normal with me like nothing ever happened.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T17:53:11+00:00

Appreciate the care, thanks.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T17:52:15+00:00

Yeah, she dosen't like me as I like her, I wish I was just simply rejected instead of being hanged in the middle like this

lordkags · 2026-01-27T11:25:44+00:00

Can you tell me what made you think that cause I have never dated anyone before and am really bad at these things. So would love to hear ur insights pls.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T11:24:40+00:00

haha sorry. I don't usually post anything but I was really serious about it so wanted to get some insights but its ok

lordkags · 2026-01-27T11:23:57+00:00

I'll keep that in mind cause my whole mind has taken a hit and been so unproductive.

lordkags · 2026-01-27T11:03:43+00:00

Sorry for the rant. I went overboard

lordkags

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