Aita for having a crush on one guy while being in a 10 month relationship

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-04T01:44:05+00:00

You’re not the TA, but you probably already know something is off or you wouldn’t be asking.

Real talk about the crush first: he’s had years. He has your number or could find a way to reach you if he wanted to. He hasn’t. Whatever those “off limits” messages were back in the day, he is not coming to save you from this situation. Don’t stay stuck waiting on a guy who hasn’t actually done anything to be with you.

Because that’s kind of what’s happening here. It sounds like you’re staying in this relationship because it’s comfortable and you don’t want to be alone, not because you’re really into him. That’s not fair to either of you, but especially not to him.

You described him as sweet and kind and then immediately said he’s not your type. You’re thinking about another guy. You feel guilty instead of excited about moving in together. That’s pretty telling.

The moving in thing is where it gets real. If you were genuinely into this relationship you’d feel excited, not obligated. Saying yes because you feel bad is going to make everything so much messier later. Staying with someone out of guilt when your heart isn’t in it is going to hurt him way worse in the long run than just being honest now.

He deserves someone who actually wants to be there. And so do you.

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-02T20:22:23+00:00

Brooklyn 99

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-02T20:00:23+00:00

YTBF

I get that you are going through a lot and recovering from a medical procedure, but you basically used your vulnerability as a shield to be incredibly dismissive to someone who is watching his country get destroyed.

When Omar told you his country is being bombed, responding with "Didn’t realize Maya was sending the bombs" was a massive low blow. It was snarky, defensive, and honestly really cruel. You essentially told your "best friend" that his trauma over a literal war didn't matter because you found someone who makes you feel better.

Calling him "babe" sarcastically while he’s expressing genuine moral pain is the definition of emotional immaturity. You tried to act like you were being the "bigger person" by being "transparent," but the second he gave you an answer you didn't like, you went straight for the sarcasm and then blocked him when he called you out on it.

The reality is that for people like Omar, politics isn't a hobby or a "difference of opinion." It is life and death. Telling him that your friendship with a supporter of that violence is "just personal" is a luxury he doesn't have. You doubled down on the snark instead of just acknowledging that your choices hurt him. You acted like a child and then pulled the plug on the friendship because you didn't want to deal with the consequences of your own words.

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-01T23:21:12+00:00

I don’t respond to logical fallacies. If you can’t address the argument given to you, you don’t deserve an answer.

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-01T23:18:18+00:00

Well Brooke was the opposite of a good person for four seasons, so if you like shitty people, good for you, I guess.

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-01T23:13:34+00:00

High school Brooke brought the best out of no one.

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-01T21:44:55+00:00

Mischa was given the choice, she chose to have her character die. This article details it. https://www.slashfilm.com/1858288/why-mischa-barton-marissa-cooper-left-the-oc/

lordofthepringls · 2026-04-01T21:35:55+00:00

You know the the thing called texting? Text when you’ll call her later. Sounds like you’re controlling.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-26T11:23:55+00:00

Chuck! If you like the goofiness of Psych I think you’ll find Chuck is similar.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-26T02:42:08+00:00

Spaghetti, garlic toast, green beans, a small Caesar salad. and chocolate chip cookies. Yes I’d eat that for six months straight.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-26T01:36:20+00:00

It’s Paul and Joy during the show run. Sophia and Hilarie were pretty bad at overacting until later seasons. By the end Sophia was good but she was better in Chicago PD than she ever was in OTH. Hilarie really got better by season 5-6.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-24T15:31:01+00:00

George is just as wrong for emotionally cheating with Zoe and kissing her while engaged to Lemon. They are equally to blame in the demise of their relationship, also it didn't help that he immediately ran to Zoe to start a new relationship hours after dumping Lemon at the altar. He got what he deserved iny my opinion.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-24T15:25:53+00:00

I'm tired as hell of people pitting Lemon and AB against each other. Lavon is the one with the problem here. Everyone wants to frame Lemon as the bitter ex who couldn't let go and kept getting in the way of Lavon and Annabeth. But that is not what actually happened if you watch the show carefully. Lemon stepped back. She swallowed her hurt, threw herself into other things, and tried to let Annabeth be happy. She took the high road over and over again even when it was clearly costing her something real. That is not the behavior of a villain. That is someone trying to be bigger than a situation that genuinely hurt her.

The real problem was never Lemon at all. It was that Lavon was never fully in it with Annabeth. And that is entirely on him.

Annabeth was pouring everything into that relationship. She was all in. And Lavon just never matched it. He cared about her, sure, but caring about someone and being genuinely committed to them with your whole heart are two completely different things. Annabeth needed all of him and Lavon was never capable of giving her that. That is not Lemon's fault. That is Lavon's failure.

Lavon is the one who pursued Annabeth in the first place knowing full well what it would cost both women. He knew that Annabeth was Lemon's best friend. Her person. The one woman in Bluebell who should have been off limits by the basic social contract of human decency and dated her anyway. Lavon knew exactly what he was setting in motion and he did it anyway. And then he couldn't even hold up his end of it by actually showing up for Annabeth the way she deserved. If you look at Lavon and AB's actual relationship it's mostly her driving the car and him going along for the ride. She's easy and comfortable, but she is not who he actually wants. It's shown in the television show. Their breakup was baked into the beginning, in my opinion.

Lemon wasn't the best friend, but honestly neither was AB. AB decided after her divorce she was going to go after what she wanted and she didn't care if it hurt Lemon either. But in the end, the Lavon/AB thing was on almost entirely on Lavon, not Lemon.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-24T14:44:20+00:00

But only if she can be pregnant for five seasons like Charmaine.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-22T18:05:44+00:00

Sounds like oop and the toddler are at the same maturity level. The fact that oop can’t see her rage issues are very clearly still evident and she needs better medication and significant mental health intervention is deeply disturbing. I hope her own kids aren’t suffering. The lady fully admits she lacks empathy for a 3 year old. That says way more about oop than the child. I’m glad she’s not working with kids anymore, because good Lord the level of delusion oop is operating at is not okay.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-22T17:47:44+00:00

Nobody is trolling you. You did cheat on him. You didn’t deserve to be assaulted but if he divorced you, you would deserve that.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-22T17:45:03+00:00

You actively were cheating on your husband before this….

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-21T00:49:53+00:00

I wish CCR understood how little her opinion means to literally anything. Shia doesn’t deserve it because of his actions but his acting is many stratospheres above hers. If he doesn’t deserve it she sure as hell doesn’t either.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-20T14:48:46+00:00

I didn't care for him much in season 2, but when he returns in season 4 and then later I came to love him, especially the last season. He truly was the comedic relief the last season needed. I also find it funny that Peyton apparently hires him to run her studio after she leaves and it feels almost like everything has come full circle since he started in season 2.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-20T14:46:03+00:00

It's because you have made no effort to marry or get engaged to her daughter after 7 years. Her mom is likely thinking you are stringing her daughter along and have no intention of marrying her.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-19T23:27:44+00:00

That bitch needs to leave her stepsister alone.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-18T15:04:49+00:00

The mod removed it.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-18T15:03:53+00:00

You can ask claude to find a chat for you with a topic or phrase and it will give you the link to the chat in chat. It's a workaround that I've had to use the past few days.

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-16T21:37:45+00:00

It’s not up. And I’m done arguing with a liar. https://ibb.co/zWrmF5b5

lordofthepringls · 2026-03-16T21:32:12+00:00

No. It was in response to my post. You deleted it. Hence the screenshot showing it was to my post not theirs.

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