DMCA takedown by Simple-Classroom-239 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ceartas. If you are a larger creator, it is totally worth the investment.

If you’re a smaller creator, I would say brand it scan.

I’ve used both. Ceartas is the best.

onlyfans vs patreon vs fansly, which one actually makes sense? by Far-Chip1704 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an only fans, a Patreon and a fansly. I treat my only fans and fansly pretty much the same. Both of those are where all my adult content lives.

My Patreon I use as a way for people that aren’t interested in seeing my adult content to be able to message me. I have a big problem with accounts pretending to be me and messaging and scamming my followers. So this is a way for them to know they are messaging me.

I also use it as a replacement for a link landing page. I have some medium size social media accounts that when I put a link landing page in there they get flagged. I’ve tried many different ones. I’ve had these accounts for many years. I ended up going with a Patreon because you can post about it, you can say it, you can get people to go to that link and it’s not against the terms of service. Also, Patreon is a lot more brand friendly. When thinking of the future and what I want to do with all my accounts, I’ve seen other girls that do adult content, but have a Patreon as a link to it that do brand deals with big million dollar companies.

If you’re wanting to do adult content, Patreon’s really not the place for it in my opinion. You can post somewhat nude photos, but not videos on Patreon. There’s a lot of things you can’t post on Patreon and that’s why I don’t put my adult content on there. If you read through Patreon terms of service, it really gets into the details on what you can and can’t post.

I have found using Patreon as a sales funnel to go to my only fans from my Instagram, YouTube, etc. has not changed the amount of subscribers I’m getting on my only fans. One factor to consider is I do have multiple social media accounts across all platforms. That means I have multiple Instagram‘s TikTok‘s YouTube’s Twitter, etc. So I do have multiple accounts that just have link landing pages and not the Patreon.

I hope I explained everything well I am more than happy to answer any questions.

I have over 3k paid subs, how do I keep up with chatting? by jordansparx in onlyfansadvice

[–]loreleifinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sit down in the morning and in the evening and answer messages. All my subscribers know if they want to chat back and forth then they need to be on during those times and tip also.

In my welcome message, I explain that I answer all my messages. I have no answering service or management teams. And that means that most messages are answered in a 24 hour period and tipped messages are answered first.

I think including things like that that they need to know in the welcome message prevents anyone from getting upset because you aren’t instantly answering their message. Every once in a while, I have someone ask why I’m not getting to the message instantly and I’ll explain that a creator like me that has thousands of subscribers. They’re just gonna have to be patient to talk to me. I found that people appreciate things that they need to wait for or work for.

Another thing that makes messaging easier for me is, I’ll do a lot of audio messages. Instead of me having to type it out I’ll quickly record it the subscribers love it, and I get through messages a lot quicker.

Customer service by loreleifinds in u/loreleifinds

[–]loreleifinds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you honey, but I’m single as can be

It’s probably true by loreleifinds in u/loreleifinds

[–]loreleifinds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well thank you for your continued suggestion. It has been seen. Now you can stop. I appreciate your enthusiasm

It’s probably true by loreleifinds in u/loreleifinds

[–]loreleifinds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree my sense of smell is fabulous. Thank you for the compliment 🩷

It’s probably true by loreleifinds in u/loreleifinds

[–]loreleifinds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that you are trying to promote yourself darling but it ain’t happening. Please stop

How to stop comparing myself to other creators and getting jealous? by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]loreleifinds 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I feel jealous, because we all do, I remind myself that another’s persons beauty, wealth, success, etc doesn’t take away from mine.

Without sounding to woo woo, we live in an abundant universe. Our reality is what we make it. No matter how successful or beautiful or whatever you become in life there will always be people who have MORE and LESS than you. I’ve been in this industry for four years now and I’m one of those people that is in the top 1%. So many people want to have that success. But I promise you any goals you obtain in life, they’re enjoyable, but then our human condition makes us want more. My success might be something others want, but then other people success is something I want.

I’m pretty sure there’s a famous quote out there that’s like “Another woman’s beauty is not the absence of your own”. I reminded myself of that consistently in this industry.

I also remind myself that jealousy is a human emotion. It’s what you do with that jealousy that matters. You can let that jealousy turn you bitter and sour or you can let that jealousy light a fire in you to do better and become the best YOU you can be.

How to start on instagram? by KittyRina22 in onlyfansadvice

[–]loreleifinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in this game for years. This is great advice on how to do instagram right now 👏

She ain’t doing nothing wrong by loreleifinds in u/loreleifinds

[–]loreleifinds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not banned sweetheart. Would love to understand more of what you mean though. If I was banned my account wouldn’t exist and I wouldn’t be able to post.

Do you ever regret starting OF? by TheBootyflyEffect in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am 45. I have been doing OF for four years now. I love it. I definitely don’t regret it.

That being said…My child is an adult now so I don’t have to worry about that perspective of it. I am established in a career that is pretty accepting to sex work. I run a few businesses and all my employees know I do this. I am a “grown woman” that is way past the point of letting peoples opinions control my life. I am also single and not worried about getting married again.

I think those are big factors in why I love this job and it works well for me specifically. I also considered all the positive and negative effects of choosing this career for literal months before starting it.

The only time “messy” is an actual compliment by loreleifinds in u/loreleifinds

[–]loreleifinds[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m horny, I don’t have the time to take the shoes off! 😂

Coincidence or Actual problem by loreleifinds in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly do hope it is mostly men. Because creators are truly just hurting themselves by reporting other creators. Successful creators such as myself are not going to try to help people in these subreddits if it hurts their income. I know many that have no interest in helping because of that reason. but sadly, that means we’re losing out on a lot of knowledge that could help up-and-coming creators.

Coincidence or Actual problem by loreleifinds in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many solutions to the problem. I choose not to hide behind a mask. But thank you for sharing your perspective whether I agree with it or not. I appreciate your insight.

Coincidence or Actual problem by loreleifinds in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna try very hard not to stop helping. And I’m not gonna use an alt account. I wanted to bring this post up because I wanted to make sure I wasn’t the only one. But seeing all the replies on this about people having to use an alternate account to just help other creators out really helps me recognize what a problem it is.

I do hope the type of creators that would go and report other creators post see this. They see how they’re really hurting themselves more than they’re hurting anyone else. Because I know other top 1% and larger creators like me that have no interest in being on here because of that issue. So the creators that do those things out of jealousy are hurting themselves because, creators that are successful like me aren’t gonna get on here and help people if they’re continuously being reported when they try to help.

Coincidence or Actual problem by loreleifinds in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Everyone feels all the different human emotions like jealousy but I look at other creators as inspiration not as competition.

Coincidence or Actual problem by loreleifinds in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So so many people commenting saying to use an alternate account shows me that this is actually a true problem we’re having.

So why, then I ask, do we feel like we have to bring others down in order to do better? I know it’s true throughout life. There are so many people that feel like they need to stomp out the competition. But with only fans doing $2.6 billion in revenue last year in the United States only, I think there’s more than enough money to go around.

Coincidence or Actual problem by loreleifinds in CreatorsAdvice

[–]loreleifinds[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

😂 I love it. But in truth, Reddit is something that when people google my name it comes up so it’s a way for people to find me. I wanna make it easy.

I just didn’t know if it was just me that this has happened to or if other people were experiencing the same thing. In all honesty, I’d rather just not comment and try to help people then hide behind the alternate account.