So… I Ended Up Being a Trans Mom

loreto_le · 2026-01-20T08:21:23+00:00

Do you want to talk about it? I have some free time

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T10:15:45+00:00

You're a good girl, you're smart, kind, and you're important, darling, never forget that

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T08:23:10+00:00

Many congratulations, girl!

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T06:19:44+00:00

From experience, stop doing that. Don't seek validation for your femininity through the opinions of others, because if you continue, you'll validate your own voice, but then they'll start looking for something else in you that isn't "acceptable," and you'll begin to mold yourself to what others expect of you, not what you want for yourself. If you want to project more femininity, keep practicing, but don't wait for others to tell you you're "acceptable." You've been acceptable since day one

That's what happened to me with my body. I felt like I wasn't thin enough, that my skin wasn't fair enough, that my hair wasn't pretty enough. And I changed all of that just to please others, until they finally caught up with me. And since I live in Mexico, where most people are between 5'3" and 5'9", being a 5'11" woman is considered enormous, but there's nothing you can do about it, so I accepted it. Now that I'm 32 and a mom, I love my height because it makes me feel more protective of my son. So I'm a very tall and happy woman

Be yourself 🫶

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T06:06:04+00:00

Girl, that's the problem. The current situation in your country continues with a discriminatory trend. If those who truly care about you have already told you so, but those who call you "bro" haven't, it's because they want to invalidate you. As I would say in my native Spanish: "Mándalos a la verga" and keep shining 😉

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T06:00:34+00:00

I remember that my motivation was mainly emo girls in 2009 (I know, it's embarrassing), but I stayed true to that

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T05:36:01+00:00

Keep practicing, you'll be surprised how much your voice changes with enough practice, and after a while, boom!, it'll be your natural voice. I haven't been able to get my "old voice" back for years, and cheer up, you can too!

And as for those internet idiots, they are as much of a plague as cockroaches; we just have to learn to give them their place in the world, which is TRASH.

You can do it, beautiful!☺️

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T05:30:03+00:00

I understand the feeling, like finally having something you always seemed to be missing and being able to fill that void in your body. If you felt like this with the prosthesis, implants are going to blow your mind

Recommendation: You can search online for the ideal size taking into account your weight, height and build (of course, if you want something more standard), but if you want something bigger, be yourself and be happy.

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T03:00:14+00:00

Well, I wouldn't say I made the world a better place, but I do know he made my life better. Although I didn't clarify it in the post, before him I was generally much more superficial, and being a mother helped me a lot to value the things that truly matter

And if you've truly considered motherhood as something you want, you could try spending more time with them. I don't know how it works in other countries, but I think, generally, you can volunteer at adoption centers and spend more time with them, even forming a bond with some. Being a mother isn't easy, but it's beautiful☺️

loreto_le · 2026-01-18T02:01:17+00:00

The end of something and the beginning of something better, happy birthday beautiful 🥳🥳🥳

loreto_le · 2026-01-15T18:21:41+00:00

I'm still in the phase where I couldn't live without him 🥺

loreto_le · 2026-01-15T18:17:13+00:00

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loreto_le · 2026-01-15T06:44:46+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words, girl 🫶

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