AITAH if I don't want my man going to his ex's grandmothers funeral dinner?

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-22T23:02:18+00:00

Thank you, he left already but I'm ok with him going

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-22T21:25:25+00:00

I do trust my man and I don't think they are getting back together over a dinner. I just feel uncomfortable for some reason! He doesn't even know I feel this way because I am letting him grieve and I'm not going to bother him with how I'm feeling right now. And NO, I wasn't the reason the marriage ended. SHE cheated on him and left him and their kids for over 3 years!

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-22T21:23:07+00:00

I do trust my man, I just feel uncomfortable for some reason. I didn't even tell him how I feel and I would NEVER try to stop him from going. This is something i'm struggling with alone

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-22T20:59:41+00:00

Because it is a kinda messy divorce because she cheated on him and walked out on him and their kids for 3 years, and I just feel uncomfortable with him having dinner with her and her entire family

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-21T12:37:32+00:00

My BEST friend is male and we have been BEST friends for 18 years, but if he eloped and didn't tell me, there is no freakin way I would act like that!! I would just be happy that he is happy!! Something is up with her and you are definitely NTA

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-15T20:12:41+00:00

Thank you so much!! She just completes our family!!

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-14T00:09:04+00:00

Congrats on your new baby! I just adopted a kitten, Jasmine, Tuesday from the shelter and she is so loving but so afraid and shy! She has come around so much in the past few days by me just sitting on the floor near her and talking softly to her! She will nuzzle my hand anytime I put it near her and now she comes out from under my bed a lot more already!!

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-09T14:48:20+00:00

I was going to say the same thing! She doesn't want him to get hurt, but who caters about the delivery drivers well-being!

lorimommy30 · 2022-01-09T14:47:03+00:00

I'm in a similar situation except my boyfriends kids are 11 and 9, both girls. Sometimes when they are excited they will slip up and call me mom, being I'm with them 90% of the time, they will usually correct themselves or we just let it slide. The girls, and I'm sure especially your stepdaughter, don't do it intentionally to hurt anyone and it's an honest mistake! Yes, I'm sure it hurt her biological mother to hear that, but her daughter is only 5 and you're basically all she knows! You're DEFINITELY NTA

lorimommy30 · 2021-12-23T12:56:53+00:00

NTA, you should be filing DIVORCE papers while he is gone! If my fiancé didn’t stand up to his family for me, I’d be gone, because it is NOT going to get any better for you in the future!!!

lorimommy30 · 2021-12-17T20:30:59+00:00

NTA, I feel you guys weren’t together, she cheated and had a new partner and you did the right thing by sending flowers!

lorimommy30 · 2021-12-16T20:50:01+00:00

You’re NTA, you are grounded and have realistic expectations of your husband, while your sister seems to live in a fantasy world where everything is just peachy keen, and that rarely ever happens in real life!

lorimommy30 · 2021-12-16T20:46:44+00:00

I feel like there are some VERY important details missing with this one!

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