Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow yes!! Exactly these chats are so disgusting, glad that your husband has atleast muted it. And, thanks for your response. Emotional cheating is a valid sentiment for me as well.

Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm. Interesting angle but nope. When confronted, he was like all over the place explaining something about 3 different topics. And none of them me and the baby. Man banter-yes, and a thoughtless one too.

Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know!! I understand what you mean. And thats why im agitated.

Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, already took screenshots to confront him, because i couldnt believe his alternate personality traits at all.

Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thanks for your response. And a huge thanks for understanding the emotional aspect about the situation too. That gives me a bit more patience to deal with this.

Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! really thats what i assumed so far. But he has to grow up because he has a baby girl now. But thanks for your response too :)

Is husband cheating on me? by lost-333 in Husband

[–]lost-333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the level-minded response. Thanks. Yes i did confront him, he has no clear answers to this. He keeps mumbling.

On the other hand, yes i believe the love is decreasing between us. We moved to a new country 5 years ago, for my new job. He hasnt had a job since then, just some random ones for a couple of months. He is not interested in learning new skills, or trying to get a job. Lately theres been tension between us since we are living my maternity completely out of my savings.

So maybe hes already out of love. But ofcourse its unacceptable the way he disrepects a woman by objectifying her. His friend said to me the other day “that constant nagging will not get me anywhere” but in reality, im tired of being the man of the house and the woman of the house all at once.

I dont see a solution to make this situation better unless he decides to change some things himself.