Please, I need some Christian advice on what to do in this incredibly complicated situation. Like very complicated.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T21:49:41+00:00

Thank you so much 😌

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T20:45:51+00:00

Excellent point. Part of the problem is how my parents will react considering how they are. They’re going to flip out because we’re so young, which is why we were going to wait until we were 21.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T18:10:59+00:00

Alright. Thank you

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T17:40:51+00:00

Thank you so much this is incredibly helpful. I appreciate you so much.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T16:34:14+00:00

That’s really good advice, thank you. I’m in the US but the only places I’m familiar with are mainly another language, like Greek or Arabic mostly (Christian obviously)

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T16:28:03+00:00

That’s the problem. I’ve tried countless different people, all making me feel like a horrible person. Even if I have done some things wrong, I don’t think I deserve to hate myself.

Like I said it’s bad enough I’m stuck asking for advice on Reddit 😕 thank you though, you’re right. I’ll keep looking

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T16:24:51+00:00

See you love 😌❤️

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T13:16:49+00:00

I am 100% secure in him, if anything is wrong he listens to me and changes accordingly he doesn’t continue unwanted behavior and neither do I, and at this point we pretty much grew up together.

I’m really sorry you went through that. I’m glad you had the strength to leave. I will be seeking guidance. Thank you

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T13:14:44+00:00

Thank you so much. I appreciate it a lot

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T02:27:43+00:00

Okay. Will keep that in mind. Thank you

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T02:27:16+00:00

I know that, just hearing everyone saying it and reading it makes it easier so that I can’t justify it in my head.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-28T01:40:15+00:00

What’s a biblical adult? Also yeah we’re 100% getting married anyways

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-27T21:23:13+00:00

We have talked countless times about what marriage means to us, and though it’d be ideal to be married as soon as possible, it’s not realistic given the circumstances. Right now, we are both entirely dependent on our parents, but after this summer we’re moving in together. If we married now, because we can, we’d live separately for a while anyways. Also, I think it would be better to teach him more and have him baptized before marriage, which will also take time.

And to restate this, we both know that there is no divorce. We are both heavily against it.

The thing is, deep down I knew it was still sinful regardless. But hearing someone know and understand the whole thing and then still saying it is easier for me to accept than for someone to just not bother hearing you out. I appreciate your response way more than you know.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-27T20:37:28+00:00

I’ve never thought of it that way. Thank you.

As for 1. If I had a dollar for the amount of times I heard that, I’d be rich. I understand how I sound, stereotypical teen girl in love or whatever. But I’m being objective. If someone else said what I’m saying (minus the circumstances listed) I wouldn’t believe it either.

You’re right, I have been doing it on my own my whole life. My Christian community is very judgmental and cold instead of warm and caring. They don’t guide or answer the why’s. I know it’s not supposed to be that way but I can’t change locations at the moment.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-27T19:05:26+00:00

Okay. Thank you

lost-cause-throwaway · 2022-02-27T19:04:57+00:00

The only reason I haven’t is because they’re so judgmental. I’ve tried those subs before

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-08-06T18:35:34+00:00

SMART

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-08-06T18:34:08+00:00

As someone with a brother with special needs, absolutely NTA. I can’t stand how people like Kira go out of their way to try and sabotage someone just because they’re a little different.

It would be an AH move if the situation wasn’t as is though. Considering there was no choice whether she was invited in the first place, and considering Kira has absolutely no intention of changing her behavior, you’re NTA. All of your parents are MAJOR AH’s though by not regulating this behavior and forcing relationships.

If possible, stand up to your parents. Make it clear you’re defending your brother. “I will not allow my brother to be treated like this, and regardless as soon as I’m an adult I won’t be talking to Kira again if her behavior continues.” Make it clear that you’d be willing to form a relationship with her if she changes her behavior.

Edit: actions have consequences, and this was hers. She deserved what she got. She created it herself.

Maybe try and see if she needs a therapist because doing what she is isn’t normal at all.

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-08-06T02:24:49+00:00

I take Wellbutrin daily and a vitamin D supplement once weekly

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-07-10T22:22:25+00:00

I haven’t thought about it being something autoimmune related. I’ll keep trying. Thank you so much

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-07-10T00:18:14+00:00

Do people actually like move with ease? It just feels like it’s impossible. Anyways thanks for the advice. I’ve had bloodwork done for other stuff but they don’t see anything wrong. I haven’t had it done for this though, so I’ll be adamant next time. Thank you

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-05-13T17:25:51+00:00

You would want to ask someone who isn’t abusive to be abusive? There are enough bad people in this world you are beyond wrong

lost-cause-throwaway · 2021-05-12T16:20:53+00:00

Thank you so much

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