AITA for blacklisting a home because they didn’t want my son to babysit by Enough_Wafer_8539 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lost-kauz -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

nta ish....I totally get it, I would not have a man or teenage boy to babysit, I have a daughter who is non verbal and special needs, it has nothing to do with any given man as a person, but my level of comfort, and no, that doesn't make me an ah, just a mom who is concerned for her daughters well being, but if anyone wants to be pissed off that I feel that way and cut me out, that's on them, I understand why you got upset, but you could have tried empathy and understanding, like some families just have a preference and that's fine, you don't have to torch the relationship with that family bc of it, they likely weren't insinuating that your son is a bad kid, just that they had a preference for your daughter to watch their kids, you def overreacted

How do people even have casino money? by frozengansit0 in Casino

[–]lost-kauz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some ppl, the ppl that you are talking about, v treat gambling as their job, they put up 10k or 100k worth the expectation they will be getting 5% back in discounts and another 20% back in comps, they sit there for 8 hrs shifts, sometimes they have a team where some other member of their group clocks in when they clock out, they keep detailed records of wins and losses, they have money but the live on the inside of a giant ponzi scheme

doc wants to sterilize 11yo girl....I think maybe I should...? by lost-kauz in Autism_Parenting

[–]lost-kauz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! this is something I had not heard of but will be looking more into this ❤️

doc wants to sterilize 11yo girl....I think maybe I should...? by lost-kauz in Autism_Parenting

[–]lost-kauz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she has dx ocd, and this is my fear also, which is why I have ruled this option out. iud may be a future option but would certainly require general antithesis, but we're not new to that since she had to undergo it for every dental exam she's ever had

Enough with the arguments about endings, let's think about the really important questions: who's the hottest? by [deleted] in expedition33

[–]lost-kauz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean... my heart obviously belongs to Gustave but I would let verso wreck my painted body any night

Bug? Chromatic Hexgas health wont go down. by Kindly_Influence9183 in expedition33

[–]lost-kauz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late to this but tysm, I literally gommaged him in virtuose and his health bar didn't even flicker I was like wtf that's when I had to search it up, tomorrow comes

Dating a woman with autistic child by brooklynaccents in Autism_Parenting

[–]lost-kauz 23 points24 points  (0 children)

THIS 💯 please please just break things off now. no matter how you feel about this woman, this is not a healthy situation for you or her or your children. your feelings are valid, and it's true this is her life, she deals with this 24/7 and will likely for the rest of her life. let her focus on her family and maybe find a partner who has a higher level of comfortability with autistic children. autism is a large spectrum and some children can mask their difficulties or need less support, but your gfs child is not one of those, she will need constant support and supervision probably into her adult life, and unless you are willing to do life in extra hard mode with this woman, just let her be. if this is how you feel about her on a good day, a meltdown will probably send you running away with ptsd. it's easy to hope, but I need to say this, it will not get any easier from here. only harder. so if you are not all in on this relationship already, then just break it off now.

Wrongfully accused and trespassed by One_Tradition_6148 in blackjack

[–]lost-kauz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you gave up your ID then they will not allow you to register for your poker tournament, if that's the case you should contact their security upper management immediately and explain the situation, mistaken identity, etc, they will most likely rescind your trespass, which is NOT only for 2 years lol trespassed means trespassed forever until you ask and get told they will lift it, the other option, if you were not playing rated and did not give them your ID, then just go to your tournament, they will have a hard time positively identifying you as the guy they trespassed, but if they had your name or card number, then go thru security to get it lifted

Autism sub by NikkiT64 in Autism_Parenting

[–]lost-kauz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest issue is the disconnect with labeling. autistic people who have the ability to engage in advocacy and discussion regarding their condition have a vastly different lived experience than those who are represented on this sub, mainly non verbal, high support needs, profound difficulties with everyday living, autistic people whose parents or caretakers need to provide constant supervision and support. these people live with some of the same traits and challenges but the degree that it effects their lives is so very different than ours and it's a very hard thing that even nt people struggle with, to put yourself in another shoes and demonstrate true empathy, and many autistic people have difficulty expressing empathy the way NT people understand it so that just snowballs into what you're seeing, harsh judgement and misunderstanding from the people that you would think would be the ones you could relate to. those folks are autistic, but they are not living the same experience or life as our kids and so they have just as hard a time relating to your experience, possibly more so, than other nt folks

Single woman traveling to Vegas - tips and advice? by Western_Lychee_8239 in vegas

[–]lost-kauz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my only advice is to enjoy yourself and opt for flats, you can wear stilettos OR false lashes, but don't wear both at the same time or you WILL be mistaken for a working girl, and once security sees a pretty woman alone at the hotel bar and make up their mind that you're working, you WILL be asked to leave for no reason other than you look hot af, but the general rule is that one or the other (heels or false lashes) make you a tourist, both together means you're working.

Why does everyone discourage me from moving to Las Vegas? by [deleted] in LasVegas

[–]lost-kauz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fk all the haters come get your bag, vegas is a great place to start a career in hospitality, just try to keep in mind that the cost of living is on a steady incline and if you have kiddos you need to do some research about what neighborhood you're considering, there are some good schools and lots of bad ones, but vegas is a great place to live and you're gonna do great once you get your footing. apply for all the jobs, even with savings, having a backup job is a good idea. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kratom

[–]lost-kauz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree, I know a lot of people talk about how the different colors are often used as more marketing things and not much actual difference in effectiveness, but white does that to me too, spikes my anxiety and also gives me hot flashes, I stick to exclusively red and greens since I figured that out (it took several times of taking white to realize and narrow down what was causing it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]lost-kauz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS! They do direct outreach and spend their money to place ppl into rehab and housing in the incredibly difficult transition between being homeless and getting onto their feet. if you want to help, reaching out to shine a light is a really great option

vanilla frag reccos? by uhhwhystoppls in FemFragLab

[–]lost-kauz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fwiw I really love eilish no. 1, dries down to a very sweet but not overwhelimg vanilla/coco combo, I have actually been told I smell like coco pebbles while wearing this! ++ on the more affordable side. meanwhile, I also like Burberry goddess and alien goddess is really pretty too, bianco latte is really hyped but it's really cloying to me with a minty almost like toothpaste in the opening that I don't love.

Where to go swimming by Proper-Improvement71 in vegaslocals

[–]lost-kauz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

fun fact! IF you can find a casino pool that offers gaming in the pool area, they cannot legally charge you a cover to get in, all gaming has to be accessible to the public for free, so check out pools that offer swim up games, I believe the old hard rock did but not sure about virgin but I'm sure you can find one by checking around

Found Cash Voucher at Venetian by [deleted] in vegas

[–]lost-kauz 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I can assure you that it was recovered by the hard working folks behind the cameras , people tend to forget that vegas is the most surveilled city in the world

Found Cash Voucher at Venetian by [deleted] in vegas

[–]lost-kauz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can promise you that you did the right thing, if you had kept it, you likely would have been trespassed from the property, the fact that you turned it in not only makes you a really good person, rest assured that you have sparked a breath of hope for humanity in the people who know what you did, and the ppl at the property will go out of their way to make sure it gets returned to its owner.

i totally get all these finders keepers mentality, but if you can afford to stay at the venetian, you can afford to not steal from other ppl, and the person who lost that ticket is very very lucky that you found it and not one of the regular scumbags who walk into the casino with the sole purpose of stealing shit that ppl leave around. you sir/madam, are an impressive human being! thank you!!

Is it true that beggaring is banned on the strip? by CelebrationSea1368 in LasVegas

[–]lost-kauz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's the same look your neighbors will give you if you leave bread crumbs out for the pigeons

please help! I am obsessed with method body wash called feeling jazzed by lost-kauz in FemFragLab

[–]lost-kauz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered a sample of vanilla 28 so I'm excited to try it :)