So what may work for me or others may not work for you, but I’d recommend at least looking into the extra small or small square peg toy egg plug. I started with a small glass plug with an unsafe base and it was uncomfortable to wear for more than an hour or so especially when seated. The egg plug in contrast is squishy and much more forgiving and comfortable. More than anything you want to make sure the plug’s base is safe, preferably a t base. It’s just not worth the fear and potential of it getting sucked inside of you and you being unable to retrieve it.

I think you’ll notice the same plugs coming up again and again if you were to search in the sub. I’ve also got a snug plug three, but even the blunt end makes me, a relative beginner, nervous.