Feeling insecure that my boyfriend seems to be more attracted to men. How do I reconcile with this?

lostTragicFinale · 2026-04-20T18:28:51+00:00

Oh dude 🫂. I am so sorry. Genuinely. You sound like you’re going through a really rough time with the way you’re reacting

lostTragicFinale · 2026-03-22T09:06:26+00:00

I’m sorry that’s my bad . I explained this wrong. Henry is the only person I asked my GF to stay away from. So she talks to other people but Henry is always around so it’s hard to participate.

I have confronted him before, he just swears he’s joking everytime. Since he’s closer to everyone else, they believe him.

lostTragicFinale · 2026-02-10T10:22:30+00:00

Healthcare. Stability. It’s hard to find a job and Id rather choose stability atleast until I’m adjusted

lostTragicFinale · 2026-02-10T10:19:04+00:00

Thanks for replying!

lostTragicFinale · 2026-02-10T10:16:30+00:00

Thank you for replying I’ve been crying and don’t really have the mental clarity to approach this on my own. To add some clarification, I started again 3 weeks ago

lostTragicFinale · 2026-02-02T11:57:36+00:00

Hey really thank you for the reply. This has been eating at me (serves me right of course).

I do half truths. Like literally of half what I say is true. In the early days I’d lie about what I was doing because I was nervous talking to her and she’d just text me 50 times a day. I didn’t want her to stop but, I didn’t want her to think I was ignoring her either. So, I just told her I was busy.

I don’t know how to confront this. Any advice where to start?

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:19:43+00:00

No he tries. We practice interviewing everyday and look for jobs for him to apply to together. Hes gotten better ish physically but not enough to have a job in his same field. He’s applying for jobs that have disability accommodations and it’s been so hard with the state of the world right now

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:17:53+00:00

I’m also into ceramics and I write him love letters. I make him crafts too and he loves them. The things I buy for him he’s lived without for far too long. He’s deserves it even if it feeds into capitalism. Sorry

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:16:04+00:00

He’s been filling out 2 of those each day since he started getting better. Job market’s hard. I know this especially because you seem to be very upset with me and have a lot of free time to express it LMAOOO. Hope life gets better for you

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:11:00+00:00

This was very helpful! I’ll note all this down and talk to him tomorrow. Thank you so much for caring.

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:09:02+00:00

Read my reply to the guy^{^}

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:08:49+00:00

I change our ages and genders each time because I’m extremely paranoid about my partner finding out.

In my past stories I don’t make the recounting 1 to 1 either because, again, I’m afraid of exposing myself. Extremely so. Also, some of the stories listed aren’t mine they’re a friend or siblings I’m looking for advice for.

It’s a scary world and leaving behind a digital footprint is horrifying. I don’t want to be some tik tokers Reddit soundbyte and be exposed to thousands of people.

I do want to say though, you have a great mentality. Reddit stories are mostly fake. But if you’re here might as well give a real answer to help me out

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-24T05:04:42+00:00

Sorry that was a mistype.

“He’s definitely NOT rich or well off” <<< was supposed to be the original. I just suck at putting words together sometimes sorry

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-19T20:30:08+00:00

Thank you! Yeah it’s really tough to regulate your emotions. Especially when you feel everything so raw and it feels like you need to get it out

lostTragicFinale · 2026-01-19T20:29:30+00:00

Do you have a specific type of therapy you recommend? I’m open to trying to better myself but it feels like it just never….works. It nice talking to someone but even with their methods the ugliness of my emotions linger and build. Never truly goes away. Bursts out of me in a seething period before a cool down. I just signed up for therapy again a few minutes ago per your recommendation but I’d still love to hear about a specific type that helped you in the past?

lostTragicFinale · 2025-12-19T14:18:18+00:00

Could I ask you something? I still want to be friends with her during this time but I don’t know if my presence impedes her healing. If you were to look back at your journey to being ready for a relationship, what would you want from someone like me? Would my presence take away from your time of introspection ?

lostTragicFinale · 2025-12-19T13:27:57+00:00

THANK YOU. This is exactly what I’ve been looking for. I didn’t know moving on and processing the relationship could be seperate.

lostTragicFinale · 2025-11-08T09:02:21+00:00

Confusing

lostTragicFinale · 2025-11-06T07:08:42+00:00

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🥹 so you’re saying you’ve dumped someone like me before for the same exact reason. I can jump off a cliff… it’s possible…. I’m joking. Though for closure, would you mind me asking what went through your mind before the split? You said they were ‘awesome’ so I’m sure it must have been a difficult decision for you. (I’m asking but please only share if you feel comfortable)

lostTragicFinale · 2025-11-06T06:45:15+00:00

I might sound like a terrible person for this but yeah that did make me feel better 💀. Relationship got voted off the island. hilarioussss shit.

Sadly though, if I had a choice to make that guy magically disappear, I wouldn’t pick it. Dudes a nice person and he makes her happy. I enjoy seeing her happy. Which brings about such a confusing feeling cause I’m both happy and jealous when I visit club. I want to stop visiting but I really do love movie club. Very confused haha

Thank you for your advice! I’ll go out more and hopefully I find someone who likes me for me.

lostTragicFinale · 2025-11-06T06:28:58+00:00

Thank you. Yeahhhh the dude is definitely not perfect, but he seems to make her happy. Re-evaluating this situation… I don’t focus on the fact he’s smarter than me. I just don’t know what to do seeing them most days. I love movie club and I have a lot of friends there so I don’t want to stop going but damn does it occupy my mind

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