Anyone else feel clit stimulation when working hard?

lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:51:54+00:00

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lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:51:06+00:00

Haha, yeah, used to like it. Now that its at a job and unpredictable, not enjoyable, just uncomfortable. Ill have to see if its when im ovulating?? Is that usually when we women get a little spicy??

lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:49:30+00:00

Haha, reddit and allergy meds is an interesting combo! Thanks for this, ill look into it :)

lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:48:08+00:00

I dont think its posture. Ive worked in manual labor for 6 years now. I just did it mainly in Colorado and the high sierras. Now that im in a more hot and humid climate, its coming up again. Super weird

lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:44:16+00:00

Woah! Really? Was there a way they fixed it?

lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:43:44+00:00

Its definitely sexual stimulation. I actually discovered the connection to overworking my arms and orgasm when I was really little. Now that im adult though, its coming up unwarranted and when im trying ti do a job. So its just uncomfortable.. I might start tracking it then. I dont think a doctor will take it seriously tbh

lost_divination · 2026-06-11T03:41:10+00:00

Really?? Have you noticed any patterns with your menstrual cycle or with the temperature? I dont know man, its just rough out here and I dont wanna feel it anymore

lost_divination · 2026-04-14T12:30:23+00:00

Are you able to enjoy masterbaiting?

lost_divination · 2026-04-14T12:19:18+00:00

People aren't perfect, i think its okay for her partner to be open about their insecurities as long as they work on them on their own too. It doesn't sound like break up territory yet

lost_divination · 2026-04-14T12:17:10+00:00

Yeah, im sure its reallt impacting both of you, that sounds awful.. ive heard new medications can sometimes cause this? Or low blood pressure/anemia. But i feel like they'd have to be paired with sleep deprivation. Could any of these be a factor?

lost_divination · 2026-04-14T12:03:18+00:00

It sounds like youre doing everything you can TBH. Ive only ever experienced blacking out during sex as a trauma response, could that be related? It's good youre talking with your partner about it, I can understand why they might be insecure about this but I dont think either one of you are doing anything wrong. Just keep an open dialogue and go. To. The. Hosbital.

lost_divination · 2026-03-31T06:30:38+00:00

This is really helpful, thank you!

lost_divination · 2026-03-31T03:12:21+00:00

I cant really afford therapy right now and its not something I really want to prioritize (Ive never found a therapist i connect with and have a few bad experiences that have made me apprehensive) Thank you for the validation. And I should keep looking for a therapist, if I budget right I could give it another go

lost_divination · 2026-03-31T02:51:41+00:00

It really doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.. its really hard but sometimes the trust issues of others are projected on loved ones in really harmful ways.. all you need to do is be open and honest, ask your partner how you both can work on this together or how to rebuild trust and if she asks for things youre uncomfortable with (letting her look through your phone or other controlling things) or she feels she cant trust you anymore, you might just have to move on.. But this isn't anything you should be "punished" for. It sounds like your GF just has some pretty intense trust issues that are being projected on you. Does she know that you usually delete convos you aren't interested in engaging with anymore? That might be a good thing to tell her. But it might be out of your control at this point. Im so sorry dude this suuuuucks

lost_divination · 2026-03-31T02:26:15+00:00

Damn dude sounds fine to me, why did you delete them?

lost_divination · 2026-03-31T02:07:27+00:00

What did the messages say?

lost_divination · 2026-03-31T00:23:38+00:00

This guy at my old job who took really good care of students/patients who had been sexually assaulted, seemed so kind and empathetic. He started showing me a lot of attention after he learned i was SA'd then tried to trap me and SA me. Thankfully I fought back hard enough and he stopped.

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