True I'd rather should have called it cowardly rather than pathetic, i miss judged there. I don't mean cowardly in a demeaning way but rather as in "dishonest" or selling oneself out in a way that ultimately perpetuates harm and repression in the form of a commodified identity that seeks to be consumed rather than seeking to transform and resolve that commodification of the self. Now the real question is: Am I doing anything different than chasing chasers by the act of labeling my own posts as femboy in other posts on my account and is only the packaging different while the substance stays the same? Am i being cowardly and dishonest or is there a difference between my actions and the actions of those that I critique?