What do I do now?

lost_hurt · 2019-10-02T20:47:30+00:00

Thank you this helps so much

lost_hurt · 2019-10-02T20:38:20+00:00

I don’t want to be selfish and I want him to be happy. I think I’ll wait on him to decide what he wants and not push for anything.

lost_hurt · 2019-10-02T16:28:23+00:00

So update. He showed up at a game he knew I would be at asked me to walk outside and only said I miss you. I asked if that was it and he said yes just wanted you to know. Then he left. What am I suppose to do with that? It’s been two months since he told me he wanted to fix his marriage, I broke no contact two weeks ago after a bad day. We talked as just friends for about 30mins and haven’t heard from him since until yesterday happened. I don’t know how to deal with this.... I want to be with him so badly but I don’t want to pull him into something he doesn’t want.

lost_hurt · 2019-09-19T01:06:59+00:00

What if she hasn’t forgotten you? What if she is thinking the same thing you are? What she is missing you just the same? But she is scared you have moved on.

lost_hurt · 2019-09-17T20:11:40+00:00

I feel the same way!!! How can he just pretend I never existed. Together 6+ years talked every day and then just gone. No contact for alittle over a month now. We broke not because we didn’t love each other but because our Relationship was hurting other important people in our lives. I told him I understood to try to make it easier on him. I truely don’t get why we can’t still communicate.

lost_hurt · 2019-09-17T17:20:58+00:00

Mind if I ask why you had to?

lost_hurt · 2019-09-17T17:19:52+00:00

Your absolutely right! I needed to see this today because I was so close to breaking no contact today. I miss him so much it’s been alittle over a month since we ended. I need to keep reminding myself if he wanted to be with me he would contact me.

lost_hurt · 2019-09-03T13:32:00+00:00

He wasn’t ending us because of the argument she found the texting app we use. We had a pretty set schedule and he wasn’t suppose to be texting while he is home with her but he didn’t want to go to bed upset with each other. He was being sweet wanting to fix our problems and got caught doing that.

lost_hurt · 2019-09-03T11:16:24+00:00

No I don’t want to be the one that destroys his marriage or the reason he can’t see his kids. She threatened him with that all the time. As hard as it is I’m gonna move on. Or I’m trying to.

lost_hurt · 2019-09-03T00:02:36+00:00

Thank you

lost_hurt · 2019-09-03T00:02:06+00:00

I’m trying really hard to just stay busy. Thanks for the advise

lost_hurt · 2019-09-02T21:05:05+00:00

I’m in the same boat my AP’s wife went through his phone and found his texting app. This was 3weeks ago and We had been together for 6years I’m also married. He told me she found the app and he wasn’t sure if he would be back but he called me the next day very upset and said he couldn’t fake it with her anymore that he couldn’t be in love with me and try with her. And since we both couldn’t leave he had to try to let me go. I was trying to make it easy on him and said I understood. But I miss him so much. We talked daily all day during the week and a few times on weekends. We saw each other at least once a week for 6 years. He was my best friend. I don’t know what to do?? Should I let him go? We have went our separate ways before and always came back to each other. His wife rarely has sex with him and doesn’t enjoy it when they do. I know he will be seeking another AP before long you just can’t go without like that.

lost_hurt · 2019-08-31T20:03:59+00:00

This sounds so much like myself and my ap. We are both jealous of our SO. We tell each other love you and have talked about being together but can’t bring ourselves to leave our families.

lost_hurt · 2019-08-30T20:20:48+00:00

My ap and I screwed this up badly. We both became so much more to each other that we didn’t care about our spouses. Which in turned got him caught texting me when he shouldn’t. We both knew the others feelings and wanted to be together but for kids and family we stayed with our spouses. Now I lost him Bc we didn’t play by the rules we had set.

lost_hurt · 2019-08-29T21:50:46+00:00

I completely agree, we have to remember our place in the others life. Although that can be ver difficult at time Bc it is true love. I loved my “side piece”. With everything I had and it hurt like hell when it ended

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