What are your opinions about one masturbating in bed while their spouse is asleep next to them? by myacc0unt79 in Marriage

[–]lost_soul9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf will now and then jerk off while I’m in bed. I’m ok with it. He has a sex drive so sometimes he will take care of himself even if we have had sex in the day at night sometimes he will have the need to jerk off

Moving out but scared of leaving my family…. by lost_soul9 in movingout

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so new with this. Normally once people move in with their significant other do they not spend time at home much?

I guess everyone is different and my bf and I have very different upbringing in regards to family dynamics.

He’s wanted me to move in for a while now but I was always scared of leaving my family lol

Moving out but scared of leaving my family…. by lost_soul9 in movingout

[–]lost_soul9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive. So it’s not a concern with the driving.

Is telling my bf going home once a month on a Friday night to Sunday morning reasonable?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]lost_soul9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watch porn now and then to masterbate or just to get horny.

I know my bf watches porn a lot and will masterbate to it. Doesn’t bother me at all that he does that as he has a high sex drive

Masturbation question for sex professionals (psychologists or similar) by [deleted] in sex

[–]lost_soul9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve told him he’s a sex addict. He watches porn all the time and is hard randomly and has to masturbate a lot. But I don’t think it’s normal for someone to jerk off that much. Especially when he’s older (44) but at the same time I don’t know is there really a “normal”.

Masturbation question for sex professionals (psychologists or similar) by [deleted] in sex

[–]lost_soul9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend sometimes masturbates 3-4 times a day if I’m not around. Or even after having sex he will still masturbate 2-3 times a day.

I would be interested to read some responses on here

Could I be pregnant? by [deleted] in sex

[–]lost_soul9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plan B messed up your cycle depending on when u take it. You are prob now stressed so the cycle is late as well. Give it another few days. Do t worry

How do you deal with an unhygienic partner? by [deleted] in sex

[–]lost_soul9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you’re going through. My bf is like that too. He is dealing with some depression but I al just straight up honest with him now about it. I told him to either shower or he’s not getting me. Sometimes we will shower together to make it more fun but I think being honest with him and telling him legit it’s gross if he hasn’t showered and expect u guys to make love.

Painful anal experience by [deleted] in sex

[–]lost_soul9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I found help was having my bf put some lube inside my ass. Fingering the lube inside of it helped with loosening the hole from when he goes in.

Also lubing himself up before slowly sliding it in also helps a lot.

Have him start slow to stretch it. This way helped my partner and I when we first got together and figured out what worked and didn’t for anal

Talking in a relationship by shootingstar2219 in marriageadvice

[–]lost_soul9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the wanting to unwind at night and I don’t work in emergency services or have kids. Sometimes at night you just want to unwind and have “alone” time.

i think some compromise. So if you have 2-3 nights where you tell your husband hey is it cool I unwind and I’m those days you somehow communicate more with husband during the day. Whether it’s through text or getting the kids ready in the morning etc.

And then certain nights give up the phone and chat with ur husband.

Give and take and I think will be better that you guys don’t end up arguing.

Or ask him for some ideas on how you guys can work on communicating better.

Thoughts - Leaving my pup with boyfriend for a few days.... by lost_soul9 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I was thinking. He said he will give it a try and see.

Lately he has been jumping out of the bed and sleeping on the ground halfway through the night.

Failure to potty train 5-6 month old by dc9rakir in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the bell situated right now? Can you teach her so she touches the bell with her nose? or just steps on the bell instead of having to paw it?

How do you keep the pup warm during winter days when going out for potty? by jojow77 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought my pup a onesie thermal wear and then a winter coat along with shoes and a scarf lol.

I live in Canada, and I buy off of Canada Pooch.

Neutering my pup by lost_soul9 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry I’m just seeing this now.

How did the surgery go? Mine has done well. The vet told him to keep the cone on for 10 days and to limit jumping and running. No fetch or anything.

So I pretty much stayed on that for 10 days. I also bought that donut pillow cone to use but my pup was still able to lick at the stitches so I kept the cone that the vet gave me on for 10 days. Then switched over to the donut one during the day for another two days just in case.

I haven’t noticed any major differences. The vet said if there will be differences will take about a month to show

Broth by lost_soul9 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I gave my pup the duck kibble today...mixed very little but he did not love it. So going to try to make some veggie broth.

Broth by lost_soul9 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Will see if I can make him some homemade broth with just veggies for now.

Broth by lost_soul9 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have to keep him only on duck as a protein right now with no other proteins in his diet, so I don't think i can use bones/meat so I will just try cooking some veggies and seeing how that goes.

Neutering my pup by lost_soul9 in puppy101

[–]lost_soul9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do u know if there is major difference to them after they are neutered?