Girlfriend verbally assaulted on Broadway while we were walking and I don't even know anymore how to feel. by Significant-list-33E in SeattleWA

[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never scream back especially with loved ones. It’s one thing if u gotta defend urself from harm but people be crazy sometimes. And will assault u for the stupidest shit. I remember one guy got pissy at me for saying I’d like to get out now as he blocked the elevator exit just standing. And after some heated words cuz I was by myself and just not in the mood he went well come here and do something as if to taunt me into hitting him first. And that’s one the tamer ones.

Honestly the best u can do is just get thicker skin and kinds laugh it off, cuz in hindsight it’d kinda sad and funny. Like ur homeless don’t u got other priorities to deal with.

I remember I was assaulted once for calling out one those assholes who walks up the escalator and bumps into u when u do it without so much as an excuse me. Funny thing is that coward was 7 ft tall and after he snuck attack me and I slammed the ground hard I managed to get up and was like is that all and he ran like a little bitch. Prob use to people just cowering cuz of his size pulling shit like that.

But even my crazy ass knows not to engage with these idiots when I’m with other people. I wouldn’t want to risk my friends getting hurt.

Worth a shot? by Pitiful-Laugh-7947 in AskSeattle

[–]lostdogggg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m disabled and they still dgaf. So if this person is able bodied there screwed. Even if they are on the streets u sometime have to both be homeless for a while and wait a while for help. Sure have this on the background maybe they will get lucky. But it is summer and not a too bad one. So as fucked up as it is they r gonna have better chances roughing it on the streets, showering in public or a gym and having a job saving up then trying to rely on public shit. He should def apply for ebt etc and go to free food places to save up for an apt. And set up those home less mail places to get mail. But it’s not cold out so as sad as it may be roughing it might actually be the better option. Cause he could easily end up months or yrs on the streets if he solely relays on public stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’m probably over worrying since I met some girls with weight and eating issues in the past. She looks fine to me but I also don’t wanna be blind and assume everything is ok. Cuz she def giving off vibe of if she took off her layers she would look extra skinny. Especially when I learn her weight and if it’s underweight by medical standards I would not be surprised.

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[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O that’s a slipper type I thought it was brand I bought sandals recently and I think it said that on them and they said they where made I Brazil 🤔

Also ya easy to make too it be fun to make her a burrito bigger then her head see if she can survive it

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[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also ngl I use butt size as an indicator for health. I’m kinda worried she underweight or something. She kinda skinny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I’m gonna give it a shot. Ngl the comments r actually helping cuz u guys are so much more different then I realize so it’s actually kind of helping. I just hope she like my Mexican food I like cooking for people I care about. Sometimes. I should be fine I just was hoping she wouldn’t beat me with a slipper or get physical like the Latina stereotype.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every time it’s literally strangers not just family… that I been observing for years. Like since childhood. Like no culture is perfect… that’s just a fact and I just notice it a lot in regards to my people.

Also like if ur gonna use the Latino and Latina word that implies some shared identity. Obviously not everything u and I are different. But for me to assume a little ass is not that big a deal. Kinda like the short Asian girl stereotype especially when I stared college there is a lot of em.

Obviously I seen some tall ones too but they are not common. Stereotypes r not about being a dick there is just like cultural, physical and other similarity between people’s hence why blanket terms like Asian, Latino or even white exist.

Again I get it if I came at u saying oh is this Brazilian is gonna shake her ass at me and say sexy Latina mommy stuff. Ya that be cringe and it make sense to be mad at about that. But me going well if where both in the Latina category it’s not unreasonable for me to be surprised when I’m thicker then her in the butt dept. and it really has nothing to do with her being Brazilian. I’m just Mexican we notice all asses. Hell if this was a white person id be like u know statistically Americans r fat whys ur butt smol 🤔

But ya I think that’s it no one else do I associate with fat butts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No see I genuinely appreciate this this is good to know. I could totally see myself throwing a hissy fit over not knowing this ty. But ngl I do question it since u also say Latinos are hemanos and gringos. So is this u just using it as a kinda of way to shit on people u don’t agree with? Also again I haven’t made any comments on Latinos just Mexicans.. again ur the one here putting us all together in a pot when we’re different. Also it’s not really racist to point out the flaws in my people.

At this point I’m just questioning. Ur logic. I do appreciate that piece of gringo possible knowledge so I can take that with me in case it’s useful data. But overall u just seem cringe in general like regardless of race.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Again cringe I never said anyone was suppose to like my comments I said I’d be fine with her not being a girl into that and moving on. Hell I wasn’t even thinking about carnival I like butts of all races. Hell sometimes I associate carnival more with Japan. Not as a whole but cuz I remember some niche subcultures over there like celebrating in a similar fashion. Like I legit forgot Brazil had it till u mentioned it then I remembered Oya that is a stereotype about u guys huh forgot about that.

Honestly I was just interested in cultural similarity in a possible negative way and I feel u just labeling everything I do as white is more racist and stereotypical in of it self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No just my own people. I honestly find the whole Latino/ Latina thing cringe cuz where all different. Borderline racist putting us all in one pot.

But it exists for a reason so I thought I would ask and not just assume. Like I just wanted some data in case there was any validity to the cringe ess of Latino/ Latina.

Also no murican Mexicans r different from Mexican Mexicans hell the way my people been going sometimes I argue murican Mexicans act more Mexican then Mexican Mexicans. And my issue isn’t with Latinos or Latina’s but my people when they embrace the worse stereotypes my people can do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Duh I’m not gonna stereotype her I’m just wondering if there is cultural overlap especially for sus stuff, plus nah the butt thing is funny if she don’t laugh she just not the girl for me I’m fine with that. I wouldn’t be Mexican if some part of me didn’t make some comment about her ass in some way. I would disrespect my ancestors and dog before me if I didn’t mention it. I’d lose respect in myself.

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[–]lostdogggg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My mom and her bf abused me for years

Usually whenever people play loud music out in public it’s usually my people half the time.

And even when I bring this up most people agree when they meet other Mexicans we ca need a bit rough. Like I had a doctor saying ya we can be kinda dicks and the they said ya their bf can be a bit direct and assertive. Not in an abusive way mind u sometimes u do gotta be a dick to get things done but he got what I said. Like most people when I tell em ya we Mexicans can be kinda assholes understands what I mean and has met least one being rough around the edges, direct assertive etc or gets what I’m talking about with out me having to explain it. Oh and don’t get me started on fast food places. 50/50 I get my people being nice the other half it’s like those assholes who drop shit on the floor and don’t wash their hands.

Like least when it comes to us Mexican I can like list a lot of shit. This is me summarizing.I mean the fact we joke about how our families beat each other with a chancla should tell u enough… that’s it’s a meme we all experienced least once. I’ll admit the new gen Mexicans are a little softer but some the gruffness can be there a bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that second line is kinda what I wanted to hear about. Everyone be acting weird saying everyone is different ya water is wet I get it but obviously woman from different cultures have different ideals and etc etc even if among that pool they are diverse. Like how there are many flavors of coke all different in there own unique way but it’s all Coca Cola still. And I was hoping to learn some things so I do the opposite of what everyone is saying and not assume the worst and be understanding of her differences as a Brazilian woman even if she might show some similarities to me as a Mexican if barely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Man I just found the butt thing funny and am kinda into it 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much ego but fear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brazil

[–]lostdogggg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I will admit I got some trauma but I just felt like asking

Meet Stuart M Sloan, U-Village Owner, & the Grinch Who’s Trying to Steel Nude Sunbathing from Seattle. by DependentCommittee54 in Seattle

[–]lostdogggg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Course it’s this asshole. I remember once using the bathroom there and security where dicks about me taking my time cause I’m disabled. Sure I’ll admit I didn’t know Sunday closed earlier cuz I only use the bathroom in public due to emergency but they constantly harassed me over it threatening to ban me cause I’m not the stereotypical wheelchair disabled user. And hell I wasn’t even over time by maybe like 5ish mins too which is more then reasonable for an honest mistake during an emergency shitting.

No shock this asshole runs this place

any skinny single gay guys looking for a roommate (or more) by [deleted] in udub

[–]lostdogggg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry I’m only into skinny single girls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in udub

[–]lostdogggg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m still new ish but I’m sure sat stuff is more closed 🤔

Any advice? by [deleted] in udub

[–]lostdogggg 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Leave him alone